<p>Andi, I do think she is suffering the consequences now. It is not just that she lost her job. There is shame and it is so public. I do believe she is suffering and has been punished. </p>
<p>SJMom, admittedly, I did not read Marilee's book or follow her too much. If she truly said that GPA, Test Scores or ECs were not that critical, then yes, that would be misleading because one must have those to get into the most selective schools. However, I'd have to examine her message and I can't talk about it fairly, I must admit. Perhaps, however, was her message to help try to ease the cut throat nature in some high school communities and to encourage kids to ease up on "doing things to impress colleges" but rather just to do what they enjoy and to strive to achieve but to be more laid back as to "what I have to do to get into college" mentality? If the latter was her message, I would agree with it. If the message was that they shouldn't worry about GPA, test scores, or ECs, I would not agree as those are needed to get into college. But I have a hard time imagining she meant THAT. </p>
<p>I think perhaps she was addressing more a mentality or competitiveness or stressed out life that has permeated some communities and families today. The admissions angst today in some school environments has gone over the top (such as portrayed in the book, The Overachievers".) I hear people from certain communities and about how each thing they do is to look good for college or better than the next guy and all this competition and stressed out lives. While I had busy kids who achieved highly, they grew up where the thinking did not revolve around college admissions and what to do to get into college and what is the next kid doing, or who has what GPA or rank or test scores, etc. etc. So, if Marilee was addressing some of the situation that is rampant in certain environments, I think THAT was a good thing. You say she encouraged kids that they didn't need a high GPA or test scores to get into college. IF she indeed said that (again, I honestly haven't followed her work closely), that would be misleading. I'd like to think her work was more aimed at reducing the cut throat attitudes that permeate certain communities, which I feel so lucky we are not a part of in my little corner of the woods. I hear about it a lot when I meet folks from other regions, or on CC, or in books like The Overachievers. And I think there ARE concerns with that atmosphere and if Marilee tried to address that, that was a good thing. I know what I am saying might not make good sense because I am missing an accurate picture of her body of work, as I have not read her book.</p>
<p>PS....but I think it was a bad thing to harp on the "don't pad your resume" when indeed she chose to do that very thing! And I think it was a bad thing to say it doesn't matter the name of your college when indeed she chose to change the name of her college on her resume to one that was more known.</p>
<p>One more PS...sorry! but part of me is laughing because isn't her book called something like "Less Stress, More Success"? I should look up the right name...but that is a message she has, right? And I want to say, well of course YOU had less stress, and achieved success, Marilee....you connived it so that you didn't have to stress over earning degrees, and you didn't have to worry about your resume....you just contrived it all and then you were able to achieve success without the stress like others have to endure! So, what IS her message? Lie your way to the top and achieve success and you won't have to have a lot of stress?? Worked for her.</p>