<p>Ok, maybe this website has more sense than I do, since it effectively logged me out while I was writing a very lengthy post. So, all of you have been saved from reading it. and, I’m not certain how to summarize…</p>
<p>I guess first of all I want to say that I hope that none of my posts sound as if I am blaming families or entire communities for children’s school problems. One of my kids, when she was in middle school, was upset that we didn’t get the flyers for the Latino parents’ group (non Latino surname from dad). As well, she astutely mentioned that the kids who were obviously Latino (by surname) as well as the African American students had received invitations to a conference on “how to help your student prepare for college,” or something of the sort. These were the two subgroups that showed lowest level of performance on the district’s standardized tests( as well as the kids designated as English Language Learners and those designated as low SES (free and reduced lunch).) Her question was, “Why would they give a conference for only those groups of kids? It seems like they are implying they don’t have as good a chance to go to college. If I were a parent, that would make me mad.” </p>
<p>So, in this instance, some general conference for all parents, possibly with special sessions for first generation parents/kids or focussing on minority concerns, would have been better. Took a 7th grader to see it.</p>
<p>My kids always also complained that their friends from honors classes would be pulled for Latino achievement awards; most of these kids were ones with professional parents, a number of these kids were very nominally Latino, as in somewhere in Dad’s history there came to be a Spanish surname, such that the kids were identified as Latino…My kids never were, “wrong” surname despite being half Hispanic. So, the whole definition of group is a minefield, albeit more so for mixed ethnicity/race kids. Yet, when there are on average group differences in achievement, how do we talk about this? Should we not? </p>
<p>I hope we can have respectful conversations without resorting to implications of inferiority. Yet, there may be elements in our family life, culture, educational experiences (either the U.S. in general or specific subgroups), peer culture, etc that do not coalesce well with academic expectations. How do we, as citizens, do anything about this if we can’t talk about it? </p>
<p>All of our kids matter. A 40% drop out rate in a major metropolitan area such as Oakland is heartbreaking, and it would be regardless of the racial makeup of the district’s students. They are all our kids. </p>
<p>I was a a young child in the South Bronx, before it became so notoriously bad, and my first memories was of a birthday party; the children and families were of a variety of skin colors. When I came to California as a young adult after having grown up in Md/VA (moved there at age 5), I felt as if I had come home. </p>
<p>I have more comments on this, but this post has also gotten long, but substantially less well-articulated than the previous one.</p>