<p>I would first of all like to state how ridiculous it is that either of you have made such a large amount of posts on a forum for “college confidential.” I cannot believe how much the two of you obviously stake in the “college process” and likewise refuse to engage in any meaningful intellectual discussion about how incredibly harmful this entire culture is. I’m assuming this is because you are both moms who care nothing more than to see your children succeed at the extent of other children while simultaneously stroking your own ego and posting incorrect advice on topics. Unfortunately, the college process could only last while you still had a child so you had to further your vicarious needs by pretending to be a “helpful resource” and at the same time rudely dismissing children looking for some hope that they could apply to a good school (and of course steering them in the wrong direction at the same time!). I find it absolutely repulsive that adults who consider themselves “mothers” would invest so much time on a site for college students looking to gain self-esteem and discuss what is essentially rumors on how the college process works.</p>
<p>With that said, let’s discuss how horribly wrong both these statistics and entomom’s “advice” is. The statistics are completely meaningless. Anyone who has spent a significant amount of time analyzing numbers and data will quickly realize that these statistics are naturally overgeneralizations. I’m glad you didn’t spend any time, “Northstar Mom,” in thinking through what you were doing before blindly posting something that the actual STUDENTS of this board (the ones this board is supposed to aid) will take for fact. I won’t delve into great detail why that statistic completely useless, but entomom seems to agree with me on that. I’m sure she is an intellectual of the highest order from a famed institution (and mind you, if she was that doesn’t mean she knows anything about the modern college process).</p>
<p>Now for entomom’s advice, "If applicants believe that 1 semester of college will out weigh 4 years of HS when applying to schools with 2-15% transfer acceptance rates, they do so at their own risk, as it has been repeatedly advised on this forum that for soph transfers, HS record and test scores will be given the most consideration. "</p>
<p>Brilliant. I must say you have an excellent attention to detail and legitimate care for doing anything other than baselessly dismissing others. Do you legitimately believe that schools with 2-15% transfer acceptance rates only care about grades? Please tell me. College admissions offices are not full of idiots. Do you really think that highschool grades and SAT scores are the most important thing in the college process? Are top tier schools just looking for another kid who did well in highschool? This is something that seems incredibly obvious, but for moms who have pushed their children to attain high grades to inflate their own self esteem, I guess I should lower the standards. </p>
<p>MIT, for instance, has learned that students who did extraordinary in highschool don’t necessarily do as well in college. It should be apparent why this is the case. Moms like you who have incessantly battered their children with their own psychological problems have, not surprisingly, incurred psychological problems on their children as well. No matter how well they did in highschool that has no bearing on their “natural intelligence” (which is another myth that I won’t get into here). Once these students are exposed to the rigor of a top tier school they will either not be able to handle it due to emotional and psychological damage, or they will manage to make it through like the rest of us. Socially and psychologically stable (to the limited extent possible) children make for much better candidates because they are willing to adapt and overcome adversity which they are sure to face at ANY rigorous program (and yes, you can find rigorous programs at schools that are not ivy). To simplify this, MIT purposefully chooses students who are interesting, capable of handling the coursework, and stable. They found that students who are normal, yet capable of handling hard classes, do far better on a whole than students who are overachievers who live to satisfy their parents needs. Inevitably some students who are the overachieving drones that you have helped create will manage to join the ranks of those at MIT, but that does not mean that MIT is necessarily looking for a high score. They are looking for kids who have passion, interest and willingness to succeed. None of those qualities have any direct correlation to highschool scores. The same goes for other top tier schools.</p>
<p>For sophomore transfers, highschool grades will obviously be CONSIDERED. Everything is considered, but they are certainly not more important than any of the factors above. The most important thing is always your unique place in their class, and your willingness to succeed. They also want a well rounded class of unique individuals because intellectual thought and progress requires different perspectives. Beyond this, your idea is just completely inherently flawed. Here’s an example. Let’s say in highschool you did okay on the SATs, ~600 in all areas. Overall, you got B+s as well. More specifically, you got a B- in Calculus and did only okay (B’s/B+'s) in math classes. You decide, when entering college, that you want to be an applied mathematician. You find out how interesting it is, and become very interested in mathematics. Your first year you take multivariable calculus and some other math class, let’s say differential equations. You try very hard, and find them interesting (as this is your new found passion) and you get an A- in both. Do you really think they’re going to care about your highschool math grades at this point? Really, do you? I can make up fifty other examples if you are still not convinced.</p>
<p>I understand that you may or may not have implied that everything I said above is false, but the way that you carelessly put forth the idea that “highschool grades are everything” is completely inconsiderate as students are going to jump to conclusions (especially because you are unable to speak in anything other than absolutes). I suppose I shouldn’t expect much from you because it’s not like you are actually here for the students. </p>
<p>I wish everyone who actually belongs here (students) goodluck in the process, and remember that if you have a true passion for something, you will absolutely get into at least one college of your choice (whether it be now, in transfer, or in grad school).</p>