<p>I agree with xiggi that no one really knows, but heck, this is CC; if we all stuck to what we actually know, there would be no CC, right?</p>
<p>I’m going to say Swat. My D1 attends Haverford, which I regard as an extremely rigorous school, with a very heavy workload and extremely high academic expectations. D1 is a hard-working, committed, conscientious student who does all the assigned work and then some, does it well and in a timely fashion, and always tries to take it a step beyond expectations. She’s doing very well academically and getting, IMO, a first-rate education, as good as any on the planet, but she comes home at the end of each semester completely drained and exhausted. </p>
<p>D1 knows quite a few kids at Swat, and she says she’s glad she’s not there because the workload and the expectations at Swat are even higher, to the point that some of the people she knows there are on the verge of burning out or collapsing mentally and emotionally. Most won’t, of course; Swat has a very high graduation rate. But the way she describes the culture at Swat borders on collective masochism: students take a perverse pride in how hard it is, how they are pushed (or push themselves) to the very limits of human endurance, how much pain they endure, beyond the breaking point for most people (i.e., us lesser mortals). Not to say that they don’t also find joy in learning and their classes and research projects and so on. But there is also a distinctly masochistic edge to it. It’s not even a competitive thing at least internally; it’s a collective identity, perhaps a little like Marine boot camp (where of course I’ve never been, either), a sense that “We’re all in this together and frankly it’s a kind of living hell, but we’ll all get through this together because we’re Swatties and unlike most of the rest of the world, we can take it. ‘The few. The proud. The Swatties.’”</p>
<p>In comparison, Haverford is seen both by 'Fords and by Swatties as a kind of “Swarthmore lite.” Plenty rigorous for D1’s taste, thank you, and for mine as a protective parent.</p>
<p>Of course this is all based on third-hand anecdote, and some of the anecdotes may have been exaggerated for effect. That could be part of the culture as well.</p>