Yes, this is somewhat confusing. It’s not unusual for a parent to hold back on identifying details. But until this ^ post, too much was too vague. I don’t know what we’re supposed to assume. Is the first child the one at a meet full need and she got no aid first year because your ‘family contribution’ is 65k or higher? And the other two colleges are not meet full need, but without knowing something about them, we can’t provide much perspective. (And remind us, are all 3 CSS schools?)
Eg, you’re saying colleges Y and Z gave 50 and 60% of demo need-- but I kinda doubt that’s their policy or some percentage based on what we usually call “demonstrated” need. For all we know, they don’t have much to offer, in the first place. You’re saying those percentages were met, but the schools may be just offering “something” without regard to how much “need” it covers. They may give you some amount, without regard to how much it truly helps you.
It seems you can afford at least 65k total (if the MFN school gave nothing, it’s because your EFC is as high or higher than the cost.)
In general,with vanilla aid (not some special award that only covers one year,) you can pretty much rest assured the next year will be “similar.” FA folks don’t have time to make complex, intricate, rocket-science calculations, every year. But again, how they factor the fact that your actual bills were less than full price, really depends on that college. And we have zero idea what schools (and what we might know of their policies and practices we’ve observed, over the years.) All I know is at least 2 are publics, one kid is OOS, and the other school is MFN.
I still think you were ok to put down full price as the “cost” of the colleges. That’s all you knew, at the time you filled out the CSS. You did not know what discounts will come for next year. (And as I said, this just gives them an idea if one is a 10k college versus a 65k school.)
Separately, different question, they asked what you can contribute. I assume you put in roughly 20 for each, right? That would add up to the 65k. Or whatever number it is, for you, divided by 3.
And also, they ask what you did pay for the current school year.
It would help if you can provide more info.
But as an example: my friend’s twins. One went instate public, less than half the cost of the other’s private. First year, he got X, bringing his costs own to roughly YY. Other kid got more aid, but it also (coincidentally) bought his costs own to about YY. Subsequent years, their packages remained essentially the same. The private kid wasn’t penalized because, for 2nd year, they realized his brother’s public cost less due to scholarships.
Bottom line: from the little we know, I think you answered as best you could. Now it’s wait and see.