<p>I don’t often disagree with binx, and I’m not necessarily going to contradict her advice, which is both wise and true.</p>
<p>However, realize that it is not unusual for a student (particularly at the higher levels) to apply to a number of extremely competitive summer programs. Acceptance can be a crapshoot, regardless of ability and talent, so often one needs to hedge your bets and be assured of being “somewhere”. </p>
<p>Now, having said that, the issue here becomes communication. With an acceptance in hand, but still anticipating additional options, it is best to wait until the last possible moment to accept the offer. If you honestly need more time, email or call the program, and explain not all your ducks are yet in a row. Ask for an extension, and in most cases, they will grant you one. </p>
<p>If nothing pans out, go with what you have, send your deposit, and thank the program for working with you. If you get your alternative offer, then let the other program know immediately, and again thank them for their offer and their assistance in working with you.</p>
<p>The worst thing that you can do is feign a commitment, or signal false intent, and pull out of one for a different program at the last moment without communicating. </p>
<p>In most instances, being honest and open will not hurt your chances for future consideration. The circle is indeed small, and word quickly spreads about reliability, or the lack thereof.</p>
<p>Approach the issue with tact and common sense, yet burn no bridges. Otherwise it is
most likely to bite you on the backside down the road.</p>