Okay I know first things first, someone is going to say something along the lines of “this should be a decision you make and others opinions should not matter blah blah blah…”
Yes I agree, at the end of the day I will be the one picking my major but asking for help doesn’t hurt. And the reason why I’m not asking my close friends/family is because 1) they’re either not familiar enough with the US school system (my family moved here 18 years ago) or 2) I kind of want to keep my decisions private for now. So this place seems like the place to go, I find a lot of people on the internet to be extremely knowledgeable and helpful anyways so it’s not entirely bad that I’m looking for help here.
Okay here is a little background story about me and my academic past.
As I mentioned my family moved to the states (from the middle east) 18 years ago. I was 9 at the time (4th grade) so most of my schooling was done in the US. I was always a slightly above average students (got mostly B’s, very rarely got A’s or C’s – mainly a B student).
I never really had direction though, I never knew “what I wanted to be when I grew up” (still kind of don’t, and I’m already grown up). For the longest time I wanted to be a singer/actress on the Disney channel lol
I don’t recall ever spending too much time studying or doing homework, I always did complete it though and just got by. I changed high schools 3 times because my parents kept moving, I guess some of the environmental factors affected my work ethic too. I went to very average public schools where most kids ended up going to community college and some went off to tier 2 or 3 universities.
So when it came time to apply to college I decided I want to go to Fashion school, FIDM to be exact. My parents were very supportive, they were happy I was pursuing something I was “passionate” about, or so I thought. Well this was a huge mistake because within 6 months of attending I realized it was not the place for me, I felt like I had no purpose, the classes were ridiculously pointless and easy. I soon realized nobody actually needs a degree to work in the fashion industry and at this point I had no desire to even work in that industry but I decided to finish my first 2 years and get my AA and hopefully transfer to a UC to major in business or ANYTHING really.
Well I realized it was impossible because none of my classes from FIDM even transferred so I had to go to community college and basically start out as a freshman and take a bunch of general ed courses then apply to a UC and hope to get accepted. I was willing to do it until I faced more obstacles. First problem was, I couldn’t get into ANY classes because although I was coming in as a freshman, I was technically a transfer student and had the last registration date and by the time it opened up for me, no classes were even available and the waitlists were INSANE (like 40 students and the odds were not in my favor). Second problem was, I learned that although my units from FIDM don’t transfer over to any UC, they will always be with me, and since I had already completed 90 quarter units, that would put me in “senior standing” which mean I would have wayy too many units by the time I would finish community college and may not even be accepted into any university.
I was super frustrated and felt defeated so I called up FIDM to see if I decided to get my Bachelor’s from them, would their accreditation get me into grad school or law school and they said yes their accreditation is legitimate so I went back to finish my degree and got a B.S. Business Management in 2014 (overall GPA 3.1).
My next plan was to either go to business school or law school so I chose law school, long story short, it just didn’t work out, it wasn’t the right fit and I’m not too upset over it. So within the past year I have applied to 3 different grad programs (in the field of business - not mba) and have been rejected and I’m not saying it’s entirely because of my degree but I think the rigor (or lack there of) of my coursework at FIDM mayyy have something to do with it. Also it’s impossible to get any references from my professors because I did the latter portion of my degree online so I had very little interaction with them, it’s also been a couple of years. I have some good references from work, my resume is not too bad, I’ve started two businesses that aren’t doing too bad but I really want to keep building myself and I feel like there’s more I can learn, I have so much more time to keep learning. Also let me say… I don’t know of anybody that went to FIDM that actually went onto get a graduate degree.
Which brings me here, I think I want to go back to school and just start all over again. I want to experience college like a normal student, I know I will probably be older than everyone (I’m 27) but that’s okay, I don’t care. I never got to feel what it’s like to be on a university campus with people all around me who are enjoying their time as students. I’ve been trying not to bag too hard on FIDM this entire post but FIDM is sort of like a snobby high school but with the feel of a vocational school.
Okay enough venting. The real purpose of this post is to try and figure out which degree to pursue.
I am thinking about attending University of Washington in Seattle. They have a great second bachelor’s program and most majors are open (some require prerequisites, some don’t). I love the area, feel and atmosphere of Seattle. I love that it’s a research university, it will allow me to actually learn.
So I have to be realistic about my major, it has to be something I’m interested in, something I can academically conquer (for example, I’m not a science person), something that will help me further my studies. In the future I will most likely want to pursue business, possibly an MBA or some specialized masters program.
I’m actually very interested in 2 of their majors:
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Comparative History of Ideas
The curriculum is extremely unique. Here is a little quote from the course description “an interdisciplinary program that draws on a wide variety of disciplines within the College of Arts and Sciences to examine the interplay of ideas and their cultural, historical, and political contexts”. I believe a course like that can help diversify and shape my perspective of the world, specifically in business. It’s unique enough to have me intrigued but also familiar enough for me to be able to relate it to my already existing skills. -
Germanics
I have been taking German since I was 14, I know it at an intermediate level, and since this major is open I figured why not get a degree in it and become fluent in a 3rd language? It may not have a significant contribution to my grad school application but achieving a high GPA and having knowledge and full fluency of the world’s 3rd leading language of business doesn’t hurt, so actually I take that back, it will contribute to my grad school application.
So, help me. Let me know what you think, which major do you think I should go with. Or if you think neither, introduce me to other options. I am open to taking any advice.
mod note - edited to add line breaks to make this easier to read. - juillet