<p>You have two issues:</p>
<p>Your costs for S1 will not go down when S2 goes to college, because if you’re paying $25k per year for S1, then THAT ALREADY IS THE price for TWO in college. Does that make sense? So you need S1’s costs to be low (about $20k or LESS) FROM THE GET GO.</p>
<p>My S2 is a good student but won’t have the same board scores or even course rigor as S1, so I feel like the time is now to really figure out how to maximize the opportunities so that we can reasonably afford S2, and 4 years further down the road, D1.</p>
<p>I’ve seen this happen before. Parents will send Child1 to a school that they can “just afford” on “good merit” or “good FA”, but then when Child2 comes along, that child can’t get the merit or FA that is needed to afford his expenses.</p>
<p>Some parents just let Child2 commute to a cheap school. However, for some families that’s distasteful because Child2 may be a good student, but just doesn’t have the top scores that Child1 has. And, you want them both to have a full college experience. </p>
<p>We were kind of in that position with our two kids. When S1 was a junior, we knew he’d be a NMF. We weren’t sure how S2 would test because he had always been a “good test taker,” but not a super one. We thought that we might end up having to pay full-freight or near-full-freight for S2. We have a very high EFC, but we have rentals, and we’re weren’t selling them to pay for college. Plus, we knew both would do some sort of grad school later and we wanted to help with that.</p>
<p>…and, we wanted both boys to have the “full college experience” since they were both serious students.</p>
<p>So, S1 did take the huge NMF scholarship. In the end, S2 did score very well and he, too, got very large merit scholarships. We lucked out, BUT it easily could have gone the other way. </p>
<p>So…if that’s where you’re coming from, then you may need to strategize to make sure that both kids’ college educations are funded. :)</p>
<p>However…if S1 gets into HYPS, then those 4 schools give SUPER aid. Your family contribution for S1 may be around $25k. Don’t know what you’d have to spend on S2, but those 4 schools do give super aid.</p>