I am going to guess that the OP is from TX. Wild guess. I obviously don’t know.
OP, Alabama is one of those schools that actively seeks OOS students and offers attractive merit awards. Though Alabama might not seem to be on the same level as the schools on your initial list, it is a major flagship and research institution and grabs the state’s top students (along with Auburn), plus very bright OOSers. Others will disagree, but when it comes to undergrad education, I honestly think there’s little difference between UMich or MSU, UCSD or SDSU, Alabama or UF. A student like you would receive merit and, most likely, admission to the honors college, where one attends a school within a school: smaller classes, only profs teaching (not TAs), rigorous coursework, and sometimes other perks like preference in housing.
I’m not trying to steer you to Alabama in particular, and others can recommend public flagships that offer serious merit to OOSers, but honors colleges are a nice alternative to LACs. A student gets an LAC-like education but still gets to enjoy the bonuses that larger schools have to offer: big time sports, a much greater pool of people to meet/date, and, yes, more parties (social life is also an important part of the college experience).
EDIT: Here’s a link to the Washington Post: https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/grade-point/wp/2018/03/29/flagships-go-national-at-u-michigan-nearly-half-of-students-now-from-out-of-state/?noredirect=on&utm_term=.b11da9a37c28 At the bottom, it lists every state flagship and shows its in-state percentage. U of Vermont leads the list with only 21% of the student body hailing from VT. I do not know the merit situations at these schools. Just in case there are people who, like me, sometimes read so many WaPo articles that they use their free allotment up, here is the list.
NOTE: The number in parentheses is the percentage change from ten years earlier. Thus, for example, the U of Vermont’s 21% in-staters means that the school had 7% more in-staters in 2008. Alabama, as you can see, has really sought OOSers. Also note that the list leaves out schools that are flagship-like. MSU, FSU, UCF, etc.
University of Vermont: 21 percent (-7)
University of Alabama: 32 percent (-34)
University of North Dakota: 36 percent (-8)
University of Delaware: 38 percent (+1)
University of New Hampshire: 41 percent (-8)
University of Mississippi: 43 percent (-11)
University of Rhode Island: 44 percent (-8)
West Virginia University: 45 percent (-4)
University of South Carolina: 47 percent (-15)
University of Oregon: 48 percent (-17)
University of Arkansas: 49 percent (-19)
University of Iowa: 50 percent (-7)
University of Michigan: 51 percent (-13)
University of Wyoming: 51 percent (-8)
University of Colorado at Boulder: 53 percent (-6)
Pennsylvania State University: 53 percent (-15)
University of Arizona: 55 percent (-8)
University of Maine: 56 percent (-21)
Indiana University at Bloomington: 57 percent (-4)
University of Wisconsin at Madison: 57 percent (-3)
University of Kansas: 57 percent (-15)
University of Oklahoma at Norman: 58 percent (-10)
University of Kentucky: 61 percent (-13)
University of South Dakota: 61 percent (-9)
University of Montana: 64 percent (-7)
University of Minnesota at Twin Cities: 64 percent (-1)
University of Missouri at Columbia: 66 percent (-14)
University of Connecticut: 66 percent (-4)
University of Virginia: 66 percent (+3)
University of Hawaii at Manoa: 66 percent (-2)
Ohio State University: 67 percent (-19)
University of Washington at Seattle: 68 percent (-10)
University of Utah: 69 percent (-9)
University of Maryland at College Park: 69 percent (+1)
University of Nevada at Reno: 70 percent (-11)
University of Nebraska at Lincoln: 70 percent (-10)
University of Idaho: 72 percent (+10)
University of Massachusetts at Amherst: 73 percent (-4)
University of Illinois at Urbana-Champaign: 74 percent (-14)
University of California at Berkeley: 76 percent (-15)
Louisiana State University: 81 percent (-4)
University of Tennessee at Knoxville: 82 percent (-4)
Rutgers University at New Brunswick (N.J.): 82 percent (-8)
University of Florida: 83 percent (-4)
University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill: 83 percent (-1)
University of New Mexico: 83 percent (-7)
University at Buffalo (N.Y.): 84 percent (-3)
University of Georgia: 88 percent (+3)
University of Texas at Austin: 88 percent (-3)
University of Alaska at Fairbanks: 89 percent (+1)