<p>I appreciate your Mom's concern for practicality, but I don't think she is being entirely fair to you. I think you may know more about your options than she does at this moment.</p>
<p>Many students take their educations a step at a time, making the choice that's right for them at each juncture. If you feel strongly that you'll find better understanding at an LAC, and they take you and fund you, I think you'll also find a more sympathetic ear there whenever you experience adjustment issues than at a big university.</p>
<p>Following college, assuming you'll work hard and party minimally, you can figure you'll be eligible for a job in business or a corporation of some kind, which is a lot better prospect than faces you now!</p>
<p>Or you might decide you want to go to graduate or professional school. Or work a few years, then return for grad school (as I did). </p>
<p>If you go to grad school, in some fields you could get a fellowship or stipend that will support you (humble lifestyle, grad students still wear bluejeans not suits and live in shared student apartments, no sportscars...). As a grad student, you might find yourself employed as a paid teaching assistant for the undergraduates. With your unique journey, you might also find yourself employable on staff at the college, for example, in student affairs, housing, and other departments that service students. </p>
<p>While you're in grad school, the loans from undergraduate level are held off and with no added interest. That would take you up to your late 20's, learning all the while and improving your ability to earn after grad school. </p>
<p>It must take a tremendous "leap of faith" to take on this decision. I appreciate your Mom's immediate concern, but wish I could reassure her to trust you, sincve it's you not she doing all the research.</p>
<p>And yes, I think you've got a good idea about being where there is a coop program rather than isolated in a town in Maine. Trust your gut. Perhaps a suburban or even urban location will make you feel more connected to the real world while you're in college.</p>