Personally - I think Wisconsin is an in for your daughter (not a hard admit) and Trinity a likely for your son. You only need one admit. Your kids scores are great, the ECs are likely ok (don’t mention NHS - unless they are doing something - i.e. the club itself doesn’t matter but if they are making an impact it does).
A 34 ACT is awesome - 99th percentile. Unfortunately, for the very top schools, many are advised to apply TO with that score - it’s a mindboggling statement - but it’s true.
For Wesleyan, as an example, it’s at the 50th percentile. However, what they forget to tell you is 41% of admits had no test considered - so in many ways those scores are inflated. That’s pretty much anywhere except the Florida publics, Georgetown, and I’m probably missing some. I know you’re shooting for a 35 - I hope you get - but even a 34 is top notch and likely will make little difference to 35. I think they have the test box checked (personally) - except maybe for a school like Vandy.
The issue with their scores, test scores, and ECs is - for the top schools - and that’s top 35 or 40 - they don’t stand out. So someone is getting in - it may be them - or it may not be. One just can’t tell. In the last week I read about 4.5s with 1500+ SATs getting rejected at UMD (top 60) and Florida (top 30). So I think that’s where everyone’s caution is coming.
Here’s a list of the top film schools - I’m sure you’ve seen this and many others. Obviously there’s many aspects to film and many rankings. Many/most are in CA - no surprise. But several you mentioned or were mentioned here by others make the list (link below) - I left off #6 Emerson.
Arizona
BU
DePaul
FSU
Michigan
Northwestern
Syracuse
Wesleyan
UW Madison didn’t make the list. But UW MIlwaukee did.
You might do a deep dive into those above for the second major and see if they might be matches. FSU is up and coming with a great film program…it’s also inexpensive and would be a target - but if accepted, would likely get an OOS waiver.
Most colleges can and do go deep into social science research. For a student who really wants to be quantitative, they will most likely tailor a program for you or already offer it via elective classes - they just might not have the major “name” like you seek.
I focused on your daughter because honestly, for Econ - and yes, your son may have different focuses within econ, but that’s a standard offering and can go anywhere. I think he’s in at two at least but I’d still put one school underneath - and there’s many school that might make his cut amongst LACs and mid size schools that are a tad below what you list…really that’s the thing - so like a Kalamazoo, Rhodes, or Denver - those would be safeties that meet his criteria (I think).
Good luck.