Can anyone share their thoughts and experiences with RIT’s unique early decision program? It was referred to as “friendly early decision” while we were on our tour. I think this is referring to the fact that you can apply early decision as RIT as your first choice and no other early decision schools are allowed, and then decide on a specific future date (maybe February 1?) whether or not to completely commit to attend RIT, withdrawing other applications. But during our meeting with the admissions counselor, he made it sound as if it is only for students who are sure they will attend, not depending on waiting for financial info or to hear from other schools…
FAQ and policy here
http://www.rit.edu/emcs/admissions/apply/freshman/how-to-apply/early-decision
Bottom line, you can only apply to one school as an early decision candidate; from the link above,* “Like other Early Decision Plans, students can only apply to one college/university as an Early Decision applicant. You may apply to other colleges at the same time under their Regular Decision or Early Action Plans.”*
The way I read it, they consider an offer of acceptance as binding. They call it “friendly” because you also get an earlier communication of any financial aid awards.
*Our plan can be described as a “friendly” version of a binding agreement.
If you are admitted to RIT as an Early Decision applicant, you will automatically be reviewed for merit scholarships. Applicants wishing to be considered for financial aid are encouraged to complete the FAFSA. Once you decide to accept RIT’s offer of admission, you should submit your $300 acceptance deposit on or before the February 1 deadline to confirm your intention to enroll. At this time, you will be expected to withdraw your applications with all other colleges/universities.*
“The way I read it, they consider an offer of acceptance as binding.”
But:
“Once you decide to accept RIT’s offer of admission”
That sounds like not binding, not even if you’re full pay. Other ED’s are binding if you’re full pay.
yeah - admittedly, it’s confusing as written 
Thanks for your input… I think we will go with Regular decision and even though we may have to wait longer to hear back about acceptance and about money, but we won’t be at all obligated. Second child to go to college, and I have learned that young minds can change a lot in the senior year.