<p>I’m not sure what deferring admittance from this Ivy will do</p>
<p>I agree that there may not be much to gain…but it would give the mom time to seek a court order if that’s possible. Or to have more time to get a waiver.</p>
<p>But, I agree that it’s unlikely going to help matters if their state won’t order the H to pay/cooperate and/or the school won’t grant a waiver.</p>
<p>and, in the meantime, the student could apply to schools that give large merit.</p>
<p>OP…how much can you pay each year?</p>