<p>We are much better off than my parents - my father was a tow truck driver who died while I was young and my mom raised five children on welfare. To go to college I had to attend an academy (which I was fortunate to be selected for). I make a very good salary as a consultant after retiring from the military. DD1 and DD2 take after DW as good, smart students so they attend/will attend private colleges with some merit aid. I feel blessed.</p>