<p>Check out the other thread for a more in-depth response, but I'll add a few thoughts here. Yale does have an academic edge and a better reputation, but Notre Dame has an amazing network of alumni and some very highly ranked departments. Also, I wouldn't say that the academic difference between the two is what it is made out to be. Don't pay too much attention to the international rankings either. I've looked at some of those before and the University of Minnesota was ranked above Dartmouth... So, for academics, I'd say you can't really go wrong. As for music, I can't tell you a whole lot. I have a lot of friends who sing in the choirs here, but it does seem like the majority of musical opportunities are religious choirs, etc. As for your last factor- there is absolutely no way you can beat Notre Dame. Yale might be 25% Catholic, but I bet you anything very few of them are practicing. I have friends at Yale and some of their stories are almost scary. The social atmosphere there is definitely more liberal (not just politically, but on the things that the student body embraces or that the administration lets slide). If you are looking for a spiritual aspect to college life, you really can't beat Notre Dame. </p>
<p>I did turn down Dartmouth and Amherst to come here (money was not a factor), and I know people who turned down offers from places like Harvard and Caltech. I have never regretted my choice. You can get a good education at all of the above, but there really is no substitute for Notre Dame.</p>