<p>First, your daughter is young and many changes may be ahead. Few of us can plan our lives in advance, and disciplines like dance and music often demand that mind set at an age that would otherwise be too young. These pursuits also demand a lot from parents (money, driving) and it can be hard for us to adjust when the path needs adjustment.</p>
<p>Just to clarify: a music performance degree is generally a Bachelor of Music, BM. Dance degrees, and visual arts, re BFA’s. Musical theater degrees are also BFA’s. I have seen a BFA in music, but I cannot remember where: it is not common.</p>
<p>I think woodwind raises a good point. During early adolescence, bones grow faster than muscles and tendons, and there can a lot of problems for dancers who are dancing frequently, and pointe is a real problem too. My daughter saw the physical therapist from Boston Ballet (not at BB, at a hospital) who told me she should only dance 1-2 times/week when in a growth spurt, and should not do pointe until 14 or 15. This effectively kept her out of the ballet track, with its intense requirements, but she has danced seriously anyway.</p>
<p>Is it possible, now that your daughter is 16, that she could start doing the other forms of dance again? She could just do barre, and gentle modern classes, to start, along with yoga or Pilates. Forgive me, she may already be doing these things, or they may truly not be possible. Clearly you have a lot of experts involved. But now that she is older and more mature, perhaps there are other avenues in dance that she could explore. The kind of ballet program she was in tends to create an attitude of “making it” or not, but the dance world is not really like that.</p>
<p>As for college, which will not be a serious concern for another year or so, I presume: your daughter needs to know that a BM is a very intense course of study, with serious theory and history classes, and so on. It is a difficult major, and, in some schools, is compared to premed science. It sounds to me like she could benefit from a course or two in music, that might be geared to her interests, but probably would not want to do intense studies in music. Unless she takes lessons and somehow takes off.</p>
<p>As she nears college age, perhaps she will have done more music (have her enroll in a theory or jazz theory class at a conservatory prep, to see how she likes it) or perhaps she will find another interest to pursue. Or perhaps she will want to go to a college as an undecided, and do tap on the side.</p>
<p>A kid who has been intensely involved in dance, at a young age, may sometimes need to take a break entirely to reorient herself. Be prepared for that possibility. High school kids often change a lot in a short period of time, and can show a hunger for any number of pursuits. So if she really cannot dance ballet or modern, try to see that as a positive, and convey excitement about the fact that, without the need to dance every day to stay in shape (a kind of servitude that dancers and musicians are familiar with), there are all kinds of possibilities before her. </p>
<p>If she is still dancing, whether tap or other forms, there are many ways to go to college.
One option is for her to take p/t college courses, say, at the New School, or community college, or anywhere really, while continuing to dance. Or online courses. You generally can take classes anywhere up to 75-90 credits, when you have to commit to a school for the degree residency requirements. A lot of dancers do this. One or two classes, leaves a lot of time for dance.</p>
<p>I would repeat that Sarah Lawrence or Bennington might work for her. Tap would not be available though. I don’t know what her injuries are, specifically, but find it hard to believe that certain college modern dance studies would be impossible for her. Would she enjoy a creative, interdisciplinary approach to dance, such as is offered at those two schools, and others? At LAC’s like Bennington and Sarah Lawrence, you can also study music and connect those studies to dance, with an advisor to help guide you. I know that at Bennington, you could connect dance to sculpture, or biology (forms in nature), or literature (story-telling) or math (patterns). You get the idea. The dance is not strenuous physically, but is demanding intellectually.</p>
<p>And there are college programs with tap: here is a link to a discussion of this:
[College</a> for tap dance? - Yahoo! Answers](<a href=“Yahoo | Mail, Weather, Search, Politics, News, Finance, Sports & Videos”>Yahoo | Mail, Weather, Search, Politics, News, Finance, Sports & Videos)</p>
<p>I strongly recommend the book “Creative Colleges,” which lists all schools with music, dance, theater, visual arts and writing programs, as well as Dance Magazine’s college guide. A subscription to Dance Magazine can help widen vistas in dance. At the same time, I hope your daughter can use the time she now has, now that she is not in an intensive program, to better know herself and what her interests are. (Speaking as a parent who has been there.)</p>
<p>Good luck!</p>