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Er, my kids can’t do Calculus II. You’ve been on CC way too long if you think that most high schoolers have completed that level of math. </p>
<p>And I did fill out the FAFSA for my kids when they were dependent for FASFA purposes; when my son was independent, then he filled out his own. I don’t really see what difference it makes – all the questions were about my money, and my situation is complicated enough that it was easier for me to enter the numbers than explain them to someone else.</p>
<p>I do agree with you that Steve is overstepping normal parental bounds with his dogged pursuit of the issue at NYU, after they explained to him that they were relying on professional judgment for their determination. When my daughter was accepted to NYU, I let her handle the appeal of her financial aid award on her own … there was no particular reason for me to get involved. I figure she could advocate for herself – I just gave her copies of whatever paperwork I thought would be necessary to document an appeal, and let her handle things from there. </p>
<p>I understand your comments about a “teachable moment” and sitting side by side. But please keep in mind that sometimes parents have a good reason for leaving the kid out of the process. My daughter’s dad was not paying agreed child support, but I’ve tried to keep my kids out of the parental squabbling over money, so I didn’t particularly want my d. to see how low the child support number was that year.</p>