<p>this is what nikki325i wrote:
"2. Being a highly motivated student at a jc is especially difficult because it's harder to meet other students/people like yourself. I made better professor friends than student friends because it's hard to relate to people when the majority of them don't have REAL transfer goals."</p>
<p>This is a huge bother for me. The other day I took my last exam for my poli sci class even though I did not need to (my professor drops 1 out of 3 exams and I got an A on the first two thus I did not need to take the last exam). Anyways, my friend says to me during class, "Hey, why are you taking the final? We (he had received 2 A's as well) do not need to take it!" This bothers me for 3 reasons: (1) I do not like to sell myself short. I feel that knowledge is a gift that should not be taken for granted. If I have the chance to learn more then I will take it. (2) This is my major so I NEED to take the exam. (3) The professor was the COOLEST person I have ever met. I would not want to disrespect him by ignoring / skipping his lectures and deciding against taking the last exam. Oh, and the fact that gave my class a speech about how much he enjoyed teaching us out of his other poli sci classes and said that he loved us (haha idk) made me respect him even more. After that speech I saw him as a close friend.</p>
<p>i can totally relate to this, nikki. in fact, a lot of people did not understand why i got disappointed over a B or even when i wasn't content with a C. And i can totally feel your frustration over having a hard time finding people who have the mindset as you do, as you seem to be a highly motivated student. If it's any consolation, having the type of mindset you have at the CCC right now will take you a long way when you transfer to a four year. =) </p>
<p>what i found from my experience at CCC is that sometimes people just need to be more exposed to students like you. during my 2nd semester, i actually met a girl who has never been around anyone who wanted to aim for an A or who was actively involved in the community. throughout the course of our friendship, i saw her attitude change toward school, and she tries harder. At the same time, i learned that many people have just been socialized differently, and somecome from a background where parents dont care about their schooling, never had intellectually curious friends, etc, but they all still have something to teach me. </p>
<p>as for my stats, this is what i transferred with:
GPA=4.0, 2 honor classes</p>
<p>Employment: 3 years, 20 hrs/week working as an assistant teacher for an english high school class (at-risk students)</p>
<p>Community Involvement: Social change coach (implementing a gang prevention program) for a year....and oh boy...something else, but right now i can't remember it for some reason LOL</p>
<p>School involvement: Founder and President of the Women Union, VP of my chapter of Phi Theta Kappa, student council rep, psychology club, students for social justice. </p>
<p>Awards: CSW award for Honorary women (SC County)</p>
<p>now i'm at berkeley trying to keep my momentum going :) i won the Alumni Scholarship from them, and that's a start =) i didn't have a whole lot of time to do outside stuff this semester because i took on 4 upper division classes (note: don't do that when you first transfer. unless you dont like sleep or relaxation) but next semester i will be reducing my courseload to 2 upper divisions because i plan to teach a student-run class here and to do research or do something in a clinical psychology setting, like peer counseling. </p>
<p>what are your plans?</p>