<p>Thanks for your input. </p>
<p>I have been wondering if it's worth twice the money to go away to school--but that's part of the reason I'd like to see her at VT--because she would be AWAY. I think she needs to gain some independence. She is the youngest of three children and the only girl, so her life hasn't been full of independence. (Yes, our fault, I know.) </p>
<p>Although both schools are big, OSU is MUCH bigger than VT and I guess it feels less personal to me. I think she wants to join a sorority and I don't think OSU is much into the Greek scene. I know VT is not like UVA, but I think there is a bigger Greek presencethan at OSU. Many people have told me that the college friends thay still have today are from a sorority or fraternity. </p>
<p>Both have great sports programs/school spirit and that was an important consideration when my daughter picked where to apply so I can't give the edge to either school. </p>
<p>Academically speaking, most people seem to think that OSU is a better school, although the engineering program at VT is 17th and OSU's program is 30th. I don't know if they are just looking at the overall picture. Who knows, she may even switch to business or math--but I think both schools have pretty good programs. </p>
<p>I wish I would have had more feedback from the VT people on here. With all of that Hokie spirit, you think they'd try to be recruiting new Hokies. Hokies, where are you??? </p>
<p>UcMichigan, you said: I turned down OSU for Rhodes..very tough decision. Why did you make your decision to go to Rhodes? Was it a good decision for you? </p>
<p>When I read back over this, it sounds like I am pushing VT. I'm really not. I just want her to make a choice that will be a good fit for her. She is a very smart girl, but I think college should be a complete experience--not just an academic one. I certainly don't want to spend more money than I have to, but I want her to be happy more than anything else. </p>
<p>Anyone else with some insight?</p>