<p>There are pros and cons for both on and off campus living arrangements. My ds moved off campus and into a 3 unit rowhouse with 10 friends(all 3 units happened to become available last June and they grabbed it fast). Its old and could be characterized as tenenemt chic. Is it a fire trap? It is a masonry structure and is basically safer than our 127 yr old victorian with balloon wall construction. </p>
<p>The big advantage is that they are saving about $4600/year. Each pays $400/mo($300 June-Aug) which includes rent, all utilities, tele, cable tv, internet connection and FOOD. They eat reasonable well too-veggie lasagna a few nights ago and "turducken" the weekend before Thanksgiving. They also have a charcoal grill on the back patio that they use when they get the urge for kabobs or burgers.</p>
<p>Another advantage is that there are fewer distractions that in a dorm. He got his first 4.0 gpa semester last term, the first that he was in the "house". Everyone has their own bedroom, though they are of varying size.</p>
<p>A third fact is that they are learning the domestic arts-cooking, food shopping, doing dishes, cleaning bathrooms, etc. Some may view this as a positive others as a negative.</p>
<p>When discussion turns to off campus apartments much is made of being isolated from campus life, and this may be true in a very limited sense if the apartment is located miles from campus. However by soph year most personal relationships have been made, nonacademics life is centered around clubs and organizations, and academics are more clearly focused.</p>
<p>And what can be more fun than organizing a Superbowl part, inviting a neighboring grad student over for a burger and a beer on the patio, inviting friends over for a T'giving dinner with all the trimmings, being able to have "friend" over for a weekend, having a basement so you can bring your kayak to college with you, having a place to stay if you want to return to campus early during break or during the summer. DS's house has done all these things(and yes he does own a kayak).</p>
<p>Safety, particulary for women, is definitely an issue. While apartments have smoke alarms, they do not have sprinkler systems. There are no emergency call boxes in off campus areas. Though most residences in the area of our son's place are student occupied, I would be uncomfortable with a daughter walking home alone late at night even though its only about 5 minutes away and crime statistics indicate that it is a reasonably safe area.</p>
<p>I believe that some people's objection to off campus living may be a result of the picture conjured up when thinking of an idealized college life. In fact the ideal college life is one that our students desire when they trundle off to academe.</p>