On-campus housing shortages - has your kid ever been kicked off campus?

<p>This is a topic that is on our minds, also, Weenie. Our S wants to move into off-campus housing this summer before he starts college in the Fall, and we're going to help him by paying for some, but not all, of his rent. He'll pay for what he can reasonably afford. For us to agree to an apartment, he had to agree to work p/t during the year. Working is second-nature to him anyway, and he was already planning on working while he attends classes. </p>

<p>After two years of dealing with on-campus housing with our D (moving in and out on their schedule, including summer sessions), having his own place will make it easier on us. But, the bigger issue for me was whether living on a dorm or in a student apt would be a more stable situation for him than living on his own. </p>

<p>To tell you the truth, I think that the partying, noise, health issues, and social dramatics of on-campus student housing would have a negative effect on him. Neither one of my kids were ever interested in the party scene, and they're not particularly comfortable around those who are. He's also pretty independent, cooks on his own, shops for his own food, can clean when he wants to, and is responsible with a job. His friends are mostly college students who live on their own. </p>

<p>From what we've seen and experienced with typical on-campus housing, it would not be an ideal environment for him. He got his yah-yahs out in high school, and it seems like he's ready for a more responsible lifestyle. Imho, the decision to live off-campus depends a lot on the personality, experience, and maturity of the student. :)</p>

<p>Some of my best memories of college were the big Thanksgiving feasts we had for some of us OOS students. Also much easier to have small parties, have a bike not get trashed, keep stuff over the summer, etc.</p>

<p>Same here, barrons. I lived off-campus all 4 years and never had enough time to go home for Thanksgiving. I lived in a student house with 7 other students, and we had great Thanksgivings. Those of us who cooked learned to make our family favorites and share them with our housemates and friends. We sort of missed our families, but not really! :)</p>