<p>VolTear, I am afraid you might be looking for a needle in a haystack here. Notre Dame’s residential community experience is very unique. I have two kids in college (one at ND) and so I have looked at many, many colleges and universities. In all of our looking, I don’t think we ever came across a school that has the same dorm experience as ND. At other schools, it is very unusual for a student to live in the same dorm all 4 years (or however long they choose to stay on campus). At ND as I am sure you know, most kids stay in the dorm they are randomly assigned to as a freshman while at most other schools kids move dorm to dorm as they so desire. When we were looking at other schools, I was surprised by how quickly many of the students move off campus, some even as early as sophomore and junior year. I went to Saint Mary’s and my husband and brothers attended ND so I had always loved that dorm camaraderie that you are referring to. We never found anything quite like ND as far as residential living goes. </p>
<p>Having said I am a SMC grad, I will suggest SMC as a great choice for a student who may not have the scores to go to ND. The whole woman’s college thing is a turn off for many, but honestly with ND across the street it is not an experience that you are with only women all the time. SMC students have access to clubs and classes at ND and they also sit in the ND student section at football games. SMC girls have many friends both male and female at ND (probably more male if I am being honest). Many students at SMC live in one or two dorms during their four years and there is a very strong feeling of community there. </p>
<p>I would also recommend looking at Wake Forest University in Winston-Salem, NC (I have a son there). Wake has an active Greek community and what I have come to realize is that the ND dorm experience closely resembles that of fraternities and sororities. What makes the Wake Greek experience different from other schools is that they do not allow off campus Greek houses like many other schools. There is one fraternity that has an off campus house but that has been around a long time and it is the exception. What happens at Wake is that they have block housing for fraternities and sororities. Freshman are randomly placed in freshman dorms their first year. In the spring, freshman will go through rush, if they want to join a F or S. If they join a F or S, they then have the opportunity to move to block housing for the next 3 years. The best way to describe block housing is that a F or S occupies a section (in my son’s case 4 floors of a wing of a dorm). In his section there are 5 or 6 doubles and a few singles with a shared bathroom. Not sure how it is for girls. Each F or S has a “lounge” at the bottom of the dorm which is where they have parties, meetings, etc. In his case, most members of his F that live on campus live in this dorm and so there is a sense of real brotherhood that resembles the feeling you get in the dorms at ND. Wake has a new policy where all students must live on campus for 3 years. If Greek students move off campus they tend to find houses that they rent with members of their F or S. The President of Wake Forest is Nathan Hatch and he came to Wake from Notre Dame where he served as Provost. Wake reminds me alot of ND in many ways however, it is not Catholic and so you do not have that Catholic feel like ND. Maybe worth looking into. My son wanted to go to ND, was waitlisted and ended up at Wake. He has loved his experience there. Wake was very high on the list for my daughter who is currently at ND.</p>
<p>Other schools my 2 ND loving kids applied to included BC, Villanova, UVA, UCONN (our instate U), Saint Mary’s, U of Miami and Wake. Vanderbilt floated around their lists also but for whatever reason we never visited and so they never applied. In their search, they always had that ND ideal in the back of their minds. </p>
<p>Wake is also SAT optional so it is a great choice for a great student who has SAT scores that don’t enhance their application.</p>
<p>Good Luck to your daughter!</p>