<p>LeCavalier:</p>
<p>Congratulations on your acceptances; you sound like a very interesting person ( and will do well and prosper wherever you go):</p>
<p>1) You have two issues: where to go to school and how to deal with your parents. Though I am very sympathetic to you, I understand your parents’ insistence on Oxford. To be able to go a school as incredible as Oxford for relatively little money (no matter your parents’ financial situation), even for a school as good and unique as Chicago, is hard to pass up. Particularly where Oxford’s network in the UK is obviously – well, it is THE network in the UK. I would say fight for Chicago over many top US schools, but you could never convince me that Oxford was academically inferior to Chicago in a broad sense nevermind worth a nearly $300,000 price premium over 4 years if you factor in travel and extras, and believe me, the “extras” add up.</p>
<p>2) You haven’t seen UChicago, I take it. It’s a nice campus, but it does NOT compare to the centuries old majesty of Oxford and can’t offer anything like its myriad student traditions. Maybe coming from the UK you’re used to ancient beauty and it’s not that big a deal but I think you will find the campus a major disappointment after having seen Oxford and Cambridge. And the area around the campus is a mixed bag of splotches of very nice, not so nice, and terrifying, depending how far out you go. Safety is a concern at Chicago the way it is NOT at Oxford. (The only reason UChicago is safe is that it has a police force the size of a an army division!) But maybe you’re up for a little adventure!</p>
<p>3) Chicago is known for giving one of the finer undergrad educations in the US, particularly for a large university with substantial graduate programs. The opportunity to explore more than 1 field is a big draw relative to the specialization of Oxford. That said, I personally believe that Oxford’s system of tutorials is the best educational mechanism on the planet. It’s not so much that you’re learning one subject, it is the PROCESS of learning to research independently and then articulate your ideas and defend your arguments one on one with some of the best scholars in the world on a weekly basis. That’s amazing. (All top schools like Chicage and Yale (where I went) have seminar systems as you advance and maybe as a freshman, but they are NOT THE SAME or as demanding as an Oxbridge tutorial!!!</p>
<p>4) In school, and later in my career, I have met people from all the top schools. (I work in finance.) I can say without a doubt that the most intelligent, articulate, truly impressive people I have met in the business have come out of Oxford and Cambridge. Their ability to analyze, argue and persuade, with great charm and panache, is quite impressive and I believe is partially a function of the education system in Britain. Pound for pound, they are more impressive than the folks even from HYP and Wharton in the states. Though Chicago is changing, it has long had a repution for quirky geekiness, maybe a tinge of antisocialness, and frankly charm and sociability are not the usual things I associate with Chicago. In the long run, these things can be important.</p>
<p>5) Chicago is a good city, but it is not a city on a par with London or New York. At Oxford, you are an hour and a half from London by train or bus but you could also easily escape for the weekend to Paris or Amsterdam or Brussels or Dublin or Edinburgh relatively cheaply by train. Chicago is pretty far from any other city of interest and getting to New York, Boston, Washington or the West Coast would involve flying and is very expensive. Chicago is brutally cold in the winter as well. Though Chicago obviously has lakefront, the land for hundreds and hundreds of miles is flat as a pancake – there are no mountains or seashores easily accessible for diversion.</p>
<p>6) The others are right. Unless you stumble into a special situation, the odds of securing work documents to stay in the US after undergrad are not good. Go to school at Oxford and spend time on summer holiday traveling in the states or doing a special internship. Get your America buzz there.</p>
<p>7) Keep Chicago in your pocket for grad school. Who knows where your head will be 3 years from now, but Chicago is superb in almost every field for grad or professional school. And then, depending on the field, getting sponsored for a visa, though tricky, would be likely than coming just from undergrad.</p>
<p>Just my gut reaction.</p>