Finally coming closer to some sort of decision (or at least whittling down the list somewhat!).
U.Chicago sweetened the pot with an extra “Presidential Scholarship” but neglected to tell us how much it was (turns out it was two $4K summer stipends). Probably not enough to sway a decision one way or the other.
Among D’s options offering full-tuition merit aid, it looks like the only one still in play is Wash U.
Among her more-expensive HYPS options, it turned out that Yale was a bit of a disappointment. While everything looked great on paper and the programs, professors, students, residential college system, etc., etc. were top notch, D found New Haven rather depressing and the school had a much more urban, less of an isolated campus feel than D had expected. She’s not a big fan of city streets running through her campuses.
City streets running through her campuses is one of the many reasons that took Harvard off the list without visiting (other reasons for taking it off the list include the fact that it doesn’t have an intensive humanities core like Yale’s Directed Studies, Princeton’s Humanities Sequence, Chicago’s Core or Stanford’s Structured Liberal Education provide, it doesn’t have the undergraduate focus of her other choices, and its campus vibe is not as warm and fuzzy).
And then she met Stanford…
Her fears about Stanford having too much of a techie-entrepreneurial vibe in which the humanities were, at best, not taken seriously and, at worst, denigrated, were assuaged by meeting a lot of very like-minded humanities kids and seeing how seriously the humanities are taken by the school. She sat in on some great classes and interesting discussion sections and spent some time at the freshman living/learning humanities-based program that she’s interested in, finding it very “TASP-like,” which is precisely what she seeks. Put that together with a stunning and accessible campus that – while large – is perfectly flat and easily navigable and has seems like a very supportive disabilities team and system of golf-carts, etc. to help get around, the best weather of school of its caliber, and a quirky an irreverent study body (D is plenty quirky and irreverent herself!), Rodin sculptures and stunning architecture at every turn, and we may have a winner! Now if only they will reconsider FA as we have asked them to…
D still may want to check out Princeton for reasons alluded to above about its undergraduate focus, Humanities Sequence and stunning campus, but the campus culture and vibe probably will probably not be as quirky and irreverent at Stanford’s and the exclusivity of its “eating clubs” and general east coast feel will probably not seem as warm and welcoming. (The fact that they will not allow for overnight visits and haven’t managed to arrange more than a single lunch with a single student does not bode well).
Onward and upward!
Welcome back @BigPapiofthree - I’m glad that things worked out well for your S.
Congrats on the decisions, @srk2017, @socalmom007, @moonpie and anyone I might have missed!
Congrats on the new avatar, @MotherOfDragons!
@thshadow - I can’t comment on Wash U.'s engineering, but my D loved the campus (possibly her favorite so far) and it seems like a wonderfully supportive school with a very nice vibe.
@Testingearly - How’s the Stanford visit going? I pm’ed you the other day – I think our Ds might have met…