Parents of the HS Class of 2020 (Part 1)

@whataboutcollege To make it really fun, D18 was accepted to (and almost attended) U Southern California. We might have had a kid at each USC. 8-}

@whataboutcollege Do you know the saying . . . the University of South Carolina was a university before California was a state! I do know that University of South Carolina just changed their branding, and they are now are calling themselves U of SC.

@ShrimpBurrito D20 liked McGill a lot. I think she’ll apply. My parental concern is more that she’d be taking CS in Arts faculty for the discounted tuition. She’s a techie girl, and the potential problem I see is if she decided to be an engineer of some sort instead (my D17 has already moved from one engineering discipline to another), then we’d be on the hook for much higher tuition. Not even sure if transferring from one faculty to another is possible – haven’t looked into that yet, but if she decided she didn’t like CS I suspect her ability to move to other majors is more limited than at some other schools.

We’ve spent significant time in Ottawa and D20 loves the city, so she asked me about university options there. Both Ottawa and Carleton aren’t as highly ranked as McGill, but all of the programs look to be about the same for international tuition. They’d both push the budget a bit as well at international rates, but are less that UofT or McGill Faculty of Science I figured you might have visited one or the other. Too bad D20 isn’t bilingual! Ottawa offers resident tuition to bilingual internationals.

@MommaB123 at our California school it’s a requirement to take a semester of Economics, so it’s interesting to hear you say that it’s not required elsewhere. It’s probably a California thing.

We just visited U Washington and my D20 rather liked it. My older daughter goes to U Oregon (hence the avatar) if anyone has questions about it.

@socaldad2002 yes, I’ll definitely report back after D visits UW. I’ve been to UW once - though not on a tour - and thought it was a beautiful campus. Both D and I are looking forward to an “official” UW visit.

I usually hear SC call UofSC, or just SC. I went to grad school at USCali, and D17 almost went to USCaro


Did you know that if the two USCs play each other, it makes for some jokes due to the mascot names. Just sayin’.

@bigmacbeth oohhh 


Is there any possible downside for retaking the SAT? D20 took it in December as her “practice round” without any real prep and surprised us with a 1440. Her school offers it in the spring so I assume she will take it again though she doesn’t plan to do much prep since she was happy with her first score. Just want to check if there would be any downsides for taking it again with the possibility of getting a lower score? I believe her top school will superscore but also requires you submit all test scores that you took? So if for some reason it was bad she would still have to submit it? Just wanted to see if anyone had any thoughts/experiences. Thanks

@lkim10 No, taking the test twice, with one score being lower than another, will not hurt one iota. If a school asks for all scores, then yes, she will have to send all scores. Colleges are not, generally, looking for reasons to reject someone
despite what some people will say. I would take schools at their word, and trust that they will look at the ‘best’ score, or a superscore.

Sighing a big sign of relief here. D’s second teacher finally submitted his recommendation for the Coolidge scholarship, once again at the last moment, leaving me wondering if it would be submitted before deadline or not. I know that even with fully completed application, the chances of being selected are miniscule, but all these hours editing and re-editing the essays would be wasted rather than spent on a lottery ticket. Ok, I know no skill/ experience is truly wasted and will come in as big help next year during college apps season, but still


Are your kids applying for anything this year requiring essays and teacher recs?

@typiCAmom My daughter has applied to a couple of summer programs that required essays and teacher recs. Fingers crossed that one of the programs works out. If not, she can try to find some volunteer work to do this summer and maybe get a big jump on her college essays.

@janiemiranda, best of luck to your daughter! Mine was pretty disappointed to be rejected by
NSLI-Y second year in a row, but learned she’s been advanced to the next round of another one - still far from a guarantee, but at least it’s given her hope that not all programs/scholarships are impossible to get. I hope she gets through first couple of rounds of Coolidge to win a trip to DC - itinerary from two years ago sounds pretty cool :slight_smile:

@typiCAmom Best of luck to your daughter too! :slight_smile:

@janiemiranda, thanks :slight_smile:

No applications on our side yet. The only thing I think D20 will be applying for is a job and maybe some volunteer work at a hospital. She is just finishing up (in the next 2 weeks) her second sport season. She’s had daily practices since late August
every day. It’s been a grind.

My D20 applied for Governors School. She had to get 2 recommendation letters and write 2-3 essays on her application. She finds out in March if she got in. Fingers crossed!

@typiCAmom @ebh87 - it is NOT a safe assumption that colleges won’t rescind if you don’t take the exam.

My DS16 is at Princeton. His senior spring, he called them about not taking two exams - AP Euro (because Princeton only takes credit for up to two histories and he had the other two) and AP English (because P doesn’t accept it; he had signed up for the exam, but not the class, in case he went to MIT which takes it for their writing requirement). Princeton Admissions told him:

  1. for the AP Euro, because the course was listed as AP on his application, that to not take the test would put him at risk of rescinding admission as an "academic dishonesty" (!) So he took it.

and

  1. for the AP English, because it was "on his own" and never part of his application, he didn't have to take the exam.

I agree that the exams can be costly (and take away from time working for pay, in our case, by that time of the year for seniors). However, cancel/skip an exam with extreme caution.

I also think that it’s reasonable for teachers to ask, or for schools to require, kids to take the exams. Otherwise, it’s not as high stakes, and the point of AP courses is exactly to be a high stakes course at the college level and show that you could do that.

@fretfulmother, thanks for the tip. Do you by any chance know if colleges might rescind for a 3 or even a 2 on the exam (D will do fine for gov/Econ/IR, but physics or bio without studying, with seniorities kicking in, I am not so sure


@fretfulmother thank you for the correction. I apologize for posting misinformation.

I disagree with your comment about AP courses being high stakes courses. Or, if they are, I disagree that they should be set up like that. I think AP courses should provide opportunities for students to take courses that are at a college level if they are ready for and interested in that level and that it only hurts teachers and students when the class has to be taught to the test.

@typiCAmom you’re welcome! :slight_smile: I haven’t heard of a college rescinding for any score on the exam, just for not taking it. Certainly I can’t imagine rescinding over a 3. But maybe others know more about this? My DS16 studied and got an “angry 5” on Euro :wink:

@ebh87 you’re welcome! Re teaching to the test - I think the AP course is sort of that by definition. One thing that the AP exam provides (which others may have mentioned?) is a standardized way to compare various schools’ curricula. Of course, some schools may go well beyond the syllabus if they have time in the schedule and/or it’s a second year science etc. But a 4 on the AP Chemistry exam means the same thing for any student who took the exam. I think if you omitted the exam, it would just become “Advanced X” according to that school’s opinion of what “Advanced” should mean.

Plenty of private schools agree with you that AP courses are either too high stakes or too standardized, and they want only their own curriculum. I think most public schools and many private schools, though, would rather have their students measured on at least a semi-objective scale at the top end so that they are “more competitive” for colleges. It’s one thing if a private school has sent a dozen kids to Harvard every year for 200 years, but if you have to prove yourself at a newer/unknown school, AP exams are one way to do that.

It also helps with those potentially lower grades in AP courses. My oldest, for instance, got an A- in AP World, and a 5 on the exam. I was very pleased with that, because to me, it meant that any admissions officer reading it would say, “Oh, an A-
what did he get on the exam
oh, a 5
that must mean his grades are all really a bit higher than they look” - all in all, a flattering process. :slight_smile: