You can add me to the list of stressed parents for 11/1 EA deadlines!
D24 completed her last set of revisions to her Common App personal statement, but needs the counselor to review & provide feedback or give a thumbs up. Kid sees counselor every day in the seniorsā daily college counseling class, but the last 2 days, that counselor hasnāt been there in class and Other Counselor has been present instead.
Counselor even has preset meeting times that you can book w/her ahead of time during the lunch period or after class. Did D24 set anything like that up for this week like I nagged her about last week?
NO! Dudeā¦seriouslyā¦youāre giving me gray hair, my child.
We bickered about this yesterday evening. She emailed counselor a 2nd time to request feedback. I nagged her about being assertive in class, speak up and remind her that you need to meet with her, and for Godās sake, SCHEDULE A FOLLOW UP MEETING WITH HER FOR EARLY NEXT WEEK!
What did D24 want to do? Schedule it for next Tues.
NO! On MONDAY! What does D24 say? āWhatās the rush? Thereās still 2 weeks left.ā
I barked at her that she has other stuff going on between now and thenā¦work, choir, other school work (including a French essay due on 10/27), plus volunteering for NHS on Halloween at a trunk or treat event.
so we barked at each other some more. At the tail end of all of this fun, I told her, āListen, you know how when you did driverās training, they taught you about how you need to look a little ways down the road to see whatās coming up? You need to do that now. And you need to do it with everything else re: school, choir, other obligations you have. Youāre graduating this year and going to college after that. I will NOT be nagging you all the time to remind you to do this or that. So wake up, pull your head out of your butt, and pay attention to whatās coming at you a little bit down the road. PLAN AHEAD. Donāt just react to the emergency right in front of you. PREVENT THE EMERGENCY FROM HAPPENING IN THE FIRST PLACE! PLAN for things to go wrong and give yourself wiggle room so things arenāt totally derailed IF something goes wrong.ā
I got back in return a big, āFINE! Are we DONE now?!ā God help us all.