<p>I have gotten accepted into both University of Pennsylvania and Princeton but I am unsure about what decision to make. My thoughts are a bit scrambled so i will just jot them down.
I know this is long - but help is greatly appreciated </p>
<p>The academic environment.
As of right now I have a focus in engineering but that might change. Which school would prepare me for a engineering profession? Which school would allow for the easiest transition to another career goal? And how are the freshman seminars?</p>
<p>I also want to know about the academic support available at both schools? I'm quite certain I am not stupid But I am aware that I will be attended school with some of the nation's brightest. I want to know that if i were to start falling behind i would be able to talk to the professors (again rumors that UPenn professors are hard to get a hold of) or seek help from advisors. </p>
<p>The social environment.
I understand that both UPenn and Princeton are competitive Ivy Leagues but which if any has a more relaxed environment. (I have heard that UPenn students are always stressed) I want to go to a school where people are not stressing but enjoying the learning process. Does either of the schools seem to have a lot of Greek life? And are Princeton's Food Clubs really a big deal on campus? and anyone know about the outdoors clubs?</p>
<p>UPenn undergrad is roughly twice as large as Princeton undergrad. What are the positives or negatives of each. I am a bit wary of the size of UPenn's undergrad. Are the classes very large? I would like to hear from some Penn students. Do you still feel as if you are a part of the class or does the size get overwhelming. Is there a community feel with such a large class? If so, how is it achieved?. And at Princeton, is your family your residential college or do you get to branch out?</p>
<p>The physical environment.
UPenn is urban while Princeton is suburban. What are the advantages and the disadvantages of either? Does it ever bother Princeton students that they are not in or next to a larger city? Is buying a bike a good idea for getting around?</p>
<p>Which brings me to the point that my boyfriend of 3.5 years has made the decision to go to UPenn (over Yale, Columbia, Dartmouth & Stanford - crazy right?). I am not worried about "how to keep our relationship alive", I both happy to say that we both love each other enough to make it work. I just want to know if it would be 'easy' to commute from Princeton to UPenn every other week or so. I believe there is a train to Philadelphia and that the cities are about 40 minutes apart. But with college class schedules and extracurriculars (especially at these great Universities) does it look possible- easy, ok, difficult, insane? Does anyone have information about that train?</p>
<p>Again constructive advice is needed and greatly appreciated!
Thank You</p>