<p>piccolotrumpet, welcome. My experience is in strings, and I'm not a music educator or a musician. My only credentials are those of a parent with a son who knew in middle school
that he wanted a life centered around music who graduated with a performance BM in '07. </p>
<p>We as parents knew nothing, but followed every suggestion offered by his first public school teacher, including summer lessons, private lessons, changing teachers, youth orchestra, chamber opportunities. By the time he was a high school freshman, it was basically music 24/7. Between high school, spring pit, youth symphony, and one college orchestra, 3 intense string quartet groups, summer immersion programs, and a number of local paying gigs, I could not wait till he had his license. </p>
<p>Beyond his innate talent, he had incredible, supportive teachers, both in public school and those we engaged privately. He was surrounded by fantastic peers, of equal and greater ability, which made him a better musician. Above all, he had passion. He constantly listened to recordings, read music history, self taught theory and keyboard, and devoured full scores like dime novels. </p>
<p>We never pushed, but gave him every opportunity he requested within our limited financial means, and generally followed the suggestions of his private teachers whom we trusted implicitly. I credit his "breakout" to a deep love and intense participation in high level string quartet programs, and chamber music in general. </p>
<p>As an outline for yourself, engage the best teacher you can find and afford. A quality instrument is a must, but within your families limitations. Take advantage of every playing opportunity, hs/ youth orchestra programs, community orchestras, summer programs. Practice, practice, practice. Scales are critical. Listen to recordings of the same piece by various artists. Develop your sight reading skills. Many also suggest piano, more of a means of beginning to grasp theory concepts. Embrace music history, as it will put much into socio/political context, fostering a greater understanding of the music.</p>
<p>The collective wisdom of the posters on this board is a great resource. I would advise you to read virtually every thread here, as most will contain at least one "must have" insight.</p>
<p>BassDad's post here pretty much sums up audition based college selection and application processes. You could not find a better starting point: <a href="http://talk.collegeconfidential.com/music-major/258796-so-you-want-music-major-one-familys-experience.html%5B/url%5D">http://talk.collegeconfidential.com/music-major/258796-so-you-want-music-major-one-familys-experience.html</a></p>
<p>If nothing else, here are a few that should get you started, and provide some general and specific background. </p>
<p><a href="http://talk.collegeconfidential.com/music-major/601723-what-should-i-doing-freshmen-if-i-want-go-music-college.html?highlight=high+school%5B/url%5D">http://talk.collegeconfidential.com/music-major/601723-what-should-i-doing-freshmen-if-i-want-go-music-college.html?highlight=high+school</a>
<a href="http://talk.collegeconfidential.com/music-major/525972-what-should-my-dd-doing.html?highlight=Chamber%5B/url%5D">http://talk.collegeconfidential.com/music-major/525972-what-should-my-dd-doing.html?highlight=Chamber</a></p>
<p><a href="http://talk.collegeconfidential.com/music-major/458455-how-determine-your-childs-ability.html?highlight=prepare+for+college%5B/url%5D">http://talk.collegeconfidential.com/music-major/458455-how-determine-your-childs-ability.html?highlight=prepare+for+college</a></p>
<p><a href="http://talk.collegeconfidential.com/music-major/403272-what-if-your-childs-hs-music-teacher-stinks.html?highlight=teacher%5B/url%5D">http://talk.collegeconfidential.com/music-major/403272-what-if-your-childs-hs-music-teacher-stinks.html?highlight=teacher</a>
<a href="http://talk.collegeconfidential.com/music-major/390796-does-phenomenal-applied-teacher-really-trump-everything.html?highlight=teacher%5B/url%5D">http://talk.collegeconfidential.com/music-major/390796-does-phenomenal-applied-teacher-really-trump-everything.html?highlight=teacher</a>
<a href="http://talk.collegeconfidential.com/music-major/277993-practice-innate-talent.html?highlight=talent%5B/url%5D">http://talk.collegeconfidential.com/music-major/277993-practice-innate-talent.html?highlight=talent</a>
<a href="http://talk.collegeconfidential.com/music-major/345925-musical-gap-year.html?highlight=Chamber%5B/url%5D">http://talk.collegeconfidential.com/music-major/345925-musical-gap-year.html?highlight=Chamber</a></p>
<p><a href="http://talk.collegeconfidential.com/music-major/145947-has-anybody-taken-ap-music-theory.html?highlight=high+school%5B/url%5D">http://talk.collegeconfidential.com/music-major/145947-has-anybody-taken-ap-music-theory.html?highlight=high+school</a></p>