<p>"This is all relative. The youth is MORE likely to support same-sex marriage than the generations prior. "</p>
<p>Proof?</p>
<p>“Weren’t you also the one who argued that they should be happy that they could at least exercise the right to vote, the right to protest, and the right to litigation? Why take the contrarian stance when they actually exercise such rights?”</p>
<p>Once again, a person claimed gays don’t have any rights. I am saying why would you put up your rights to a referendum? And then ***** when you loose? If something’s important to you, would you place it in the hands of the majority?</p>
<p>“Regional variations aside, handgun restrictions apply either universally or specifically to individuals who made choices to abuse them. Again, not the same thing as discriminating based on sexual preference, unless you’d like to argue that homosexuals somehow “abused” their sexuality.”</p>
<p>You’re missing the point. Gov can restrict rights. Period.</p>
<p>“This isn’t about marriage as a right (at least, not the framework within which I’m arguing). Rather, it’s about discrimination based on sexual preference.”</p>
<p>No. Read back a few posts. The discussion centers on whether it’s a natural right. If it’s not a right, discrimination won’t come into play. You need one for the other to happen. Also, gays need to be considered a suspect or quasi suspect class to receive special consideration by the courts, and SCOTUS has yet to do so.</p>
<p>E89
“Second, even if you were to find incontrovertible evidence proving what you claim, those still aren’t legitimate ends for anti-gay marriage laws.”
Notice you state PROVING WHAT I CLAIM. Sounds like you think it’s something I believe.</p>
<p>“For that matter, we could very well stop black people from marrying with your logic, based on statistics which state that AIDS is more prevalent amongst African-Americans.”</p>
<p>Sounds like you think I’m making an argument. All I was doing was providing a possible defense for DOMA. And aren’t a large portion of AA’s with AIDS black? Do you have a statistic handy which points to the percentage of straight, american blacks with AIDS? </p>
<p>Those two statements sound to me as if you think I am making an argument based on things I believe, when I said something along the lines is a possible argument would be x. </p>
<p>If that’s not what you meant, I don’t think you would have used the phrasing “you claim” and “your logic.” I guess I am just playing devils advocate, but answering someones question does not mean you support it.</p>
<p>"I love people like you. You go on and on about how gays shouldn’t complain about the government discriminating with respect to marriage, because the government has the power to do that when it comes to non-rights.</p>
<p>Then you whine that it’s “wrong” for an individual to call someone ignorant for “morally opposing” something that is uncontrollable and has NOTHING to do with morals. Are you kidding me?</p>
<p>Panther:</p>
<p>“You defend a majority from the slightest form of name calling (which, in this case, is totally appropriate - anyone opposed to homosexuality IS ignorant about sexuality) and then completely dismiss discrimination against a minority. You really expect us to believe you’re not biased?”</p>
<p>Can you please point out anything I said that “dismisses discrimination against a minority?” The discussion, once again, is whether marriage is a right. There are plenty of forms of marriage that are illegal. Not just gay marriage. Like I said, for the law to exclusively target gays, it would need to read “the fed gov will not recognize the union between same sex couples.” DOMA targets a group of marriages that are considered immoral. I believe people consider it is immoral because the bible says something along the lines of man shall not sleep beside a man. I would bet something similar is in the koran. I mean, why do we consider murder, theft, rape and other crimes immoral? Because people just think they are wrong. And religions have banned the practices for ages. Look at how many of the ten commandments are banned by law. Morality is a component of law, and it is determined by majority rules. Just looking at a very liberal state like CA, the majority opposed it. I don’t think they need to explain why they think it is immoral, they just think it is. Probably because it’s not typical. You’d have to ask those people why they think it’s immoral, not me.</p>
<p>How is being opposed to same sex marriage make a person ignorant? Because they don’t agree with you? People constantly play that card in politics, instead of supporting their claims. Are people who are opposed to any policy in which you support ignorant then? Ignorance is a person lack of information. It seems to me there hasn’t been a single, conclusive study defining why people are gay that is accepted as factual. And there isn’t a second one confirming its results. Until there is any fact regarding the topic, both sides are ignorant as to the causes of homosexuality. </p>
<p>Just off the top of my head, if homosexuality is a trait, would that mean its genetic? Because I don’t think when on family member is gay, another is also likely to be gay. </p>
<p>“No one goes around seeking government approval. No one gets married simply for the slip of paper. It’s about the benefits marriage confers, benefits which are denied to individuals based on the arbitrary standard of sexuality.”
BENEFITS! EXACTLY what I’ve been arguing. Benefits ARE NOT RIGHTS! Is welfare wrong because it discriminates against people based on socio economic conditions- conditions that many say aren’t fully in a person control? Is min wage discriminatory because it forces minorities out of the work force? </p>
<p>“Of course individuals want the legal structure to recognize their union for the sake of the financial and political benefits. And of course individuals are going to complain when they’re unjustly denied such benefits based on arbitrary standards. To limit union to “one man and one woman” is tantamount to denying homosexuals the right to such unions based on their sexuality. If they aren’t heterosexual, they’re explicitly denied marriage.”</p>
<p>Once again, BENEFITS, not rights. I don’t think everyone is ENTITLED to certain BENEFITS. Is being denied affirmative action because you’re white discriminatory? Not according to the courts. (Although it is a reverse racism/discrimination, discrimination is discrimination)</p>
<p>At least people are starting to admit (which is something I said posts ago) that gays aren’t fighting for a right, they are fighting for benefits. I wish some activists would be more open about this instead of playing the rights card. When there is no established right to marry. Buy hey, maybe the courts will create one. They love overruling two branches of gov to make things up that aren’t in the constitution and were never intended to be in it. In my opinion, DOMA could be overturned for violating the 10th amendment- the fed certainly is not granted the power to define marriage, meaning it should be left to the states. I can agree completely with that argument.</p>