<p>"Ok, wow. Starting to realize that you are just a really miserable person. "</p>
<p>Haha whatever makes you feel better about yourself. I’m not the one that needs to start name calling to feel better about myself…</p>
<p>“If someone has no control over something, and if that something nowhere near defines that person, it is ignorant to say you are opposed to it. Ignorance means you do not understand something about a subject. If you are morally opposed to homosexuality, then you clearly do not understand it. Because everything you say about homosexuality not proven to be biological we can say about heterosexuality as well. But as a gay person I am not going around claiming that straight people are simply choosing to be with the opposite sex, and that they need to be fixed. The only reason certain straight people do that to gays must be ignorance.”</p>
<p>Is it ignorant to be cautious when walking through a ghetto at night? So if Jeffrey Dhamers was just born with an instinct to rape and kill people, it’s ignorant to be morally opposed to his crimes? If someone is mentally insane, and commits a crime, is it ignorant to punish them? Assuming people are ignorant “just because they don’t support gay rights,” is kind of ignorant in itself, when you never investigated the reasons as to why people may feel that way. Maybe you being gay doesn’t affect others, and maybe it does. Maybe you just can’t bring yourself to understand homosexuality just offends people, like other sexually abnormal actions. It seems like you lack the understanding to think people can just feel like something is wrong. You have no “proof” that homosexuality is okay, you just think it is. Yet you would not consider yourself ignorant.</p>
<p>“What if I told you I was morally opposed to black people, or morally opposed to the Chinese? Would it not be ignorant to make a statement like that?”</p>
<p>I wouldn’t care. Maybe every crime ever committed against you was by a black person, or maybe the Chinese gov kidnapped and killed your family for dissenting. I wouldn’t care if you were morally opposed to woman’s equal rights. I wouldn’t care if you were morally opposed to equal pay for equal work. It doesn’t personally offend me, you are free to have your views. I don’t take offense when people in my job field don’t think women are capable of doing equally as well. It doesn’t make them ignorant, and means they have a differing opinion. I’ve encountered sexism, and it doesn’t really bother me. I could do without title 9 or 10 or whatever it is. Just because someone doesn’t have a “mainstream” or “progressive” opinion doesn’t mean it’s ignorant. Honestly, when I’m walking around at night at school, I have a heightened awareness when I encounter certain people. Why? Because people belonging to a certain group raped on of my friends, broke into a friends house, robbed a friend at knifepoint and broke a friends head open with a glass bottle after breaking into their house. You may call me ignorant, but my life experiences have shaped my views and I have reasons for it. I think it is judgemental to think someone is ignorant for believing the bible or koran or a religious doctrine that opposes homosexuality. Their beliefs aren’t physically harming people, just like your homosexuality isn’t. Very few people crafting laws belong to that religious right that you are aluding to. Most people in this country aren’t that religious. They are not going around killing gays, harming them, imprisoning them or banning homosexuality. They are using legal means available to all citizens to voice their opinion and have policies that they agree with pass. I don’t see the what “harm” they are doing to gays. You argue that homosexuality doesn’t “harm” others, beyond making people feel bad. Well people that are against gay marriage are not “harming” gays, beyond making people feel bad or upset. They are excersising their rights, and politicians are responding. </p>
<p>You are using a moral argument by saying homosexuality isn’t wrong. You have no proof, just a feeling.</p>