<p>Hello. I have a bit of a dilemna (albeit, a good one). </p>
<p>I've been admitted into Pomona, Stanford, Harvard, and a number of other colleges.</p>
<p>Whenever I tell anyone where I got in, they tell me "Good luck at Harvard". I go to one of those prep schools where pedigree is, well, just about everything. Sometimes they say, "But I guess if you really like the weather in California, you can go to Stanford." They assume I'm joking when I mention Pomona. Then they say that either A) I don't deserve my acceptance to Harvard/Stanford or B) That they think it's a good idea to take it easy for college.</p>
<p>Before I got this universal reaction, I thought I my list was: Pomona, Stanford, Harvard, in that order.</p>
<p>However, I can't help but wonder what I might be missing that everyone else seems to see. </p>
<p>This leads me to my question(s):</p>
<p>What are graduate school admissions like from Harvard/Stanford v. Pomona?</p>
<p>Are the academics truly better at Harvard/Stanford? (I was under the impression that there was too much of a focus on graduates...)</p>
<p>And, really, I suppose, why is everyone so thoroughly set on it as oppossed to Pomona?</p>
<p>I used to think I know where I wanted to go to school, but there hasn't been a single person who's supported my choice. I guess what I really want to know is if this is just the blue-blooded East Coast boarding school crowd, and not the general consensus. </p>
<p>Basically, I guess, I'd like to know if this reaction is just because of where I go to school, or if there's actually any basis for it? I really, really hope it isn't. I know I should do what I think is best, but that's awfully hard to do when absolutely no one seems to support it...</p>