<p>It was mentioned in this thread that it would be reasonable/acceptable to leave the question of what other colleges you are applying to blank (if you want) since it is optional.</p>
<p>I discovered that whether it is optional varies by school. We discovered that, for the four schools S is applying to, the question is not listed as optional.</p>
<p>Leaving the slot blank when it is not listed as optional is a violation of 'answer all the questions' rule.</p>
<p>So let me throw the question out again, assuming that it is not an option to leave it blank:</p>
<p>What colleges should one put in this slot that asks what colleges are you applying to or are intending to apply to?</p>
<p>*If other colleges listed are more selective than the one in question, there is the risk that the college in question might feel 'disrespected', a second class citizen in the applicant's eyes.</p>
<p>*If other colleges listed are less selective than the one in question, there is the risk that the college in question might feel that the applicant is 'not a very strong candidate to be applying to dumps'; it could reduce the perceived strength of the applicant.</p>
<p>*If other colleges listed are equal or comparable in selectivity with the one in question, there is the risk that the college in question might feel that the applicant is not sincere in his or her proclamations of love for THAT particular college. "Oh, I bet you say that to all the colleges", says the blushing adcon.</p>
<p>Even though the colleges say it is for research only, the adcons are all humans and are subject to the biases noted above. It is an unfair question. to the extent that this is a bit of a poker match, it is almost tantamount to asking the adversary, ahem, I mean the applicant, to show his or her cards, or at least some of the cards.</p>