I think the “real” info is available once accepted, which is a good time to meet and have a more thorough interaction.
I am glad you have had a different experience.
I object to affecting any of my kids’ choices based on disability issues, which contradicts the whole idea of leveling the playing field, the basis of the ADA. And if we all made choices on this basis, nothing wiould ever change. Better to pick a school according to criteria used by students who don’t have disabilities, and educate or force change.