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Are you saying that your kids picked their schools without any consideration of the admissions qualifications at the school and whether they would have any shot at admissions? Did they not consider having reaches, matches, and safeties on their lists?
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<p>They had high scores, good grades, APs and other credentials, but as Andison's rejection from Oberlin demonstrates, it's pretty tough to figure out what's a safety these days, aside from a state public school that admits by the numbers. (And yes, they each had/have one of those on the list--more as a financial safety than an admissions safety.)</p>
<p>Aside from the in-state public, there was/is a range of admissions selectivity in their choices, but we didn't think of them as reach/match/safety.</p>
<p>I told them both not to take anything for granted, to think of all of them (aside from in-state public) as reaches. </p>
<p>There are lots of factors not predictable by us--interviews, how the essays grab--or don't grab--the particular committee members assigned to read them, etc.</p>
<p>Older daughter was very lucky and got in everywhere. </p>
<p>We have told younger daughter not to necessarily expect the same (even though her choices happen to be slightly less selective than older sister's and her SATs and grades comparable to older sister's.) </p>
<p>Younger daughter has done some of her interviews and feels that the one that went worst was at a college that happens to be the least selective one on the list. She's planning to apply anyway, even though she's feeling a bit dubious as to whether she has a shot, given her perception of the interviewer's attitude towards her candidacy. (Interviewer was an admissions officer, not an alum.)</p>
<p>I feel confident something will work out for younger daughter. She is on the young side and spending another year at our local cc where she has been dual-enrolled and transferring from there in fall 08 would not at all be the end of the world. (She looks even younger than she is, and she thinks that may have been a concern for the interviewer mentioned above, though it didn't visibly bother other interviewers. It should be noted that she has lots of public speaking experience and can be quite poised in interviews, but does look quite young.)</p>
<p>So there are definitely non-quantifiable factors--I could easily see her getting into the more selective colleges on her list and not into the less selective ones.</p>
<p>But, in any event, we are quite confident that one way or another she will get a good education, because education is what you make of it--and, incidentally, some of her professors and some of her fellow students at the cc where she is dual-enrolled are quite stimulating and inspiring and enjoyable to work with. (She would seriously considering staying there for a four-year degree if they offered one, which they don't. But she knows she has solid transfer possibilities if she doesn't go away as a freshman in fall 07.)</p>