<p>Can't speak for Stanford. But as a Brown alum (in touch with campus life) and Princeton parent, I'd like to offer some thoughts. Both are schools where the undergraduate is front and center. As Alumother says, Princeton puts a ton of money at your fingertips for incredibly well-known professors, amazing visiting faculty, internships, summer travel, study abroad, and research. Just thumbing through the course catalogue I find one academic superstar after another whose books or articles I have read, a glittering list. Simply put, Brown just doesn't have those resources. </p>
<p>I enjoyed Providence, which is a nice, small city and sort of funky. Princeton, however, is near NYC and Philly, which comes in very handy when it comes to getting internships, recruiting amazing visiting profs, and bringing in lecturers (who seem to be passing through from NYC to DC).</p>
<p>Despite the stereotypes, many Brown students become i-bankers and man Princeton students work for nonprofits after graduation. I'd say whatever Princeton students do, they tend to do it in a very well-planned fashion and preferably by starting or participating in an organization and getting funding from wealthy alums. ;) </p>
<p>Brown's open curriculum is a huge plus, and there is more emphasis on interdisciplinary study, although you can put this together for yourself at Princeton. The grade deflation at Princeton is not a plus; the lack of plus or minus grades at Brown, though, is annoying if you are thinking in terms of professional school. However, if you look at the top professional programs the admission numbers are definitely high for HYP students. You may not be thinking of that at this point, though. </p>
<p>Princeton has more of a "scene" than does Brown. Students are, I think it's safe to say, more gregarious. The residential college system and the eating clubs both contribute to this. </p>
<p>It is true that Brown students are known as "quirky." I find they are bright and interesting. There is definitely less political correctness on the Princeton campus than at Brown; my d, who is politically liberal, likes being in a place where she has many kindred spirits but also regularly meets students with whom she can have a healthy debate. </p>
<p>I don't think you're shallow for appreciating Princeton's beauty. Alumother and I both posted a beautiful speech by the WWS dean, who is a Princeton alum, that includes some breathtaking references to the beauty of the place and how that stays with you. I've tried to find the link but no luck. Alumother?</p>
<p>Brown has come a long, long way in recent years in terms of getting alumni to connect, but Princeton's alumni network is hard to match.</p>