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You have a very interesting take on what students at Ivies do. Have you met any?
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<p>It appears that "old but wise" and a few others on this board have so skewed a view of what Ivy League students are like (I promise you that I, for one, don't have horns) that I'm beginning to question how many current Ivy students they've encountered in real life.</p>
<p>Don't get me wrong: I'm not particularly idealistic or naive. I've seen the numbers; I know that wealth and connections remain powerful forces, but that doesn't mean that these institutions are little Satanic machines run by and for the rich, forever crushing the hardworking people of Appalachia while the rich mingle and put on airs.</p>
<p>For example, let's address post 31 point by point:
<a href="1">quote</a> Berea truly changes student lives, while the Ivies don't. Children of investment bankers go to the Ivies and become investment bankers. Students at Berea come from poverty in Appalachia, and leave college much different people than they entered. Also, Berea's graduates go on to do things that actually contribute to society, rather than doing things to fill their pockets with as much money as possible, like most Ivy grads aspire to do.
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<p>Look, more than half of us are on financial aid. I know more people here who do work (cafeteria crew, 10 hours a week) than who don't. So far, I haven't met any "children of investment bankers" at Princeton; maybe they're all at Yale? As for my own parents - who never graduated from high school, much less Princeton - they were wondering how they'd get me into college AT ALL, until Princeton came along with some very solid financial aid. They're good, hard-working blue collar people, as good as any you'll find anywhere in Appalachia, and they're not the only parents. Again, I'm not going to claim that there aren't wealthy people here, but they aren't nearly as universal as you make it seem, nor do you particularly feel any "gap" between you and them.</p>
<p>Also, what's with the whole "Ivy kids are spoilt brats who only want to line their pockets" thing? Sure, a greater percentage of Ivy kids go into Wall Street than non-Ivy kids, but it's not because everyone here wishes only to make money while screwing over society. Imagine whatever state school you'd like, and then imagine flooding the recruiting fairs there with Goldman Sachs and Morgan Stanley promotions, telling any graduate from any major that if he has no idea what to do after graduation, he should just jump on board for two years and then can do anything he wants afterwards. College students, being normal, confused human beings, whether at Princeton or State School X would see this as an opportunity; there's no fundamental difference in character, merely that of opportunities. Whether that opportunity is fair or not, I won't debate here; it just seems strange to me that you're putting the blame here on a bunch of college kids here who really aren't that different from college students elsewhere.</p>
<p>That said, it's not like we don't do anything. Princeton grad founded Teach from America, which every year sends a decent fraction of students from across the Ivies into America's most run down schools. Plenty of of the "rich" kids here get up far earlier on Saturday mornings than I do so they can drive down to Trenton and work with school children there. We're human beings too, and like other human beings, have much of the same concerns about our world.</p>
<p><a href="2">quote</a> Students applying to Berea do it on their own. They don't need to hire "admissions strategists" and "essay consultants" to assist them.</p>
<p>(3) "Admissions strategists" have Ivy applicants spend the summer in Appalachia, working with the impoverished, to "beef up" their resumes. Applicants to Berea have actually lived the life of a resident of Appalachia.
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<p>Again, untrue for the vast majority of us, if for no other reason, because we can't afford it. I'm not naive enough to pretend that no one in my class of 1200-odd kids went for this; I'm sure people have. Yet a lot of simply could never afford to do so, and I know of many of the well-off who are absolutely against the practice and feel that it unfairly tilts the playing field.</p>
<p>It may be hard to believe, but most of us - like the kids from Appalachia - are just genuine hard working people who worked our butts off in high school to get here. It's quite sad to see that we worked hard to get from there to Princeton, and as soon as we got in, we were stereotyped to be the exact opposite of what we are.
<a href="4">quote</a> All students at Berea have to do significant work on or off campus to earn their "free tuition." They actually sweat and get their hands dirty. Ivy students have mom and day write a check for their college costs. The poor at Ivies are simply given a "free ride."
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<p>Geez...what's with this amazingly vitriolic stereotyping? Truly, it's hurtful to those of us who works quite hard here (you should see how I smell after cafeteria duty). And we ARE the majority.</p>
<p><a href="5">quote</a> Berea students have much more experience thinking for themselves. They got where they are on their own, having to overcome a great deal of adversity. Ivy students have had mom and dad "calling the shots" for them since they were very young. Some were even enrolled in "elite" preschools in order to give them the "Ivy edge."
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<p>I've seen this more on television than on campus. Again, I'm sure this does happen, but such students are more the minority on campus than you'd think. My parents had no idea what a Princeton or a Harvard was, and were shocked to find out that their son would be going to the other end of the country. I worked hard, I did the college research, I got in. No private counselors, no Ivy-targeted pre-school. Most Princeton parents are very supportive; some really cross their fingers that their son or daughter gets in, while others leave it up to the kid where he wants to apply to and go, being indifferent whether it's Princeton or State U. Few are actually crazed in the way you seem to think.</p>
<p>I have nothing against Berea students. The place sounds like a truly great opportunity, and I'm sure those who get the opportunity to go there are a fortunate bunch. But please: a lot of us at the ivies have worked really hard to get where we are, and we're very human 17, 18 year olds. </p>
<p>Let's try to keep that in mind?</p>