Prom!!!

<p>My school's prom is on Junef 6th, I'm planning to ask a girl to prom this friday, Valentines day. Is that too early or not? She's popular so I think it's better to ask sooner rather than later. </p>

<p>Also, I'm planning to do this:
when we're alone (or i get her to be alone with me), I give her a rice Krispie (she likes those) but on the package where little kids write their names, is the word "PROM?" and I would take out a dozen roses from my bag and get on one knee and well. ASK!</p>

<p>What do you guys think!?!?!? any and all advice would be very helpful!</p>

<p>I feel like it’s a bad idea to ask someone to prom on Valentines Day unless you’re already dating them, but maybe that’s just me. I feel like it’s sort of guilt tripping them into it.</p>

<p>Not a terrible idea though.</p>

<p>when would you guys think would be a suitable date/month to ask? she’s popular so I’d rather go earlier than later!</p>

<p>Can you foresee her actually saying yes? I remember a boy really deluded himself into thinking that this popular girl would go to prom with him and he planned this elaborate “Promposal” with roses and a choir and everything; only for her to find out a couple of days earlier and refuse to go to school that day. </p>

<p>Also - don’t ask on Valentine’s Day. It’s a little too intense. </p>

<p>she has implied that if i were to ask her, she would say yes. She said “Well if I know the guy, I’m not going to say no.” (looks right at me the entire time. Lol that’s why I’m planning to do it on the down low. That ways, either way, it won’t be a big deal! </p>

<p>I’m a little hopeless romantic and am always wishing for a guy to ask me out (never had a bf before) but I agree that Valentine’s day is more of a couple’s thing and you should probably ask after. It’s a little intense. The roses are sweet but maybe half a dozen? (6th of june right? ;D ) But everything else seems really awesome and sweet :slight_smile: </p>

<p>Why not just a single red rose? Also, you could always ask her the day before valentines day. </p>

<p>lol i don’t see her outside of school except on wednesday and friday. Would asking tomorrow be too much then lol or do you guys think I should just wait till next week or a later date. The thing is I don’t want to ask TOO LATE!! Rather be earlier than taken right? Many thanks for input so far you guys! </p>

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<p>Yeah, this. And don’t get on your knees. </p>

<p>Tattoo her name on your face. </p>

<p>I think you guys are right though, valentines day is more for a couple. I see her tomorrow and Friday, you think asking tomorrow would be too rash???</p>

<p>You’re overthinking this - just buy her a small teddy bear with a card attached that says “Prom?” - no theatrics, no glam, no drama - simple. </p>

<p>I agree with everyone. Valentine’s Day is a day for couples. My school has off for Valentine’s Day this year haha. And I would ask a senior to prom, but all the hot ones are taken :(</p>

<p>Thats another little issue that I’ve been wondering. There isn’t anything about it in my school but why do I feel as though there’s a stigma towards seniors taking Juniors to prom??</p>

<p>Yeah, I’m a senior this year and I’m not popular at all so I never get asked to anything. I think it’s crap for a senior to take a junior…oh well</p>

<p>I’m taking a sophomore to prom, and alot of seniors at my school (and other nearby schools) are takings juniors/sophomores (sometimes even freshman!). Don’t worry about it </p>

<p>Btw the rice crispy idea is better than a teddy bear in my opinion. Girls tend to like it if you give them something you know they love. Unless she loves stuffed animals, I wouldn’t give her one of those. (Personally, my gf would look at my like I’m stupid if I gave her a stuffed animal for any reason, but every girl is different)</p>

<p>Guys, I’ve sorta hit a roadblock. I saw her at work today and for some reason, EVERYONE ELSE WAS LATE TO WORK BUT THE TWO OF US. It’s like someone’s trying to ■■■■■ me lol! Anyways, I causally asked her if she got asked to prom yet and she sorta hesitated and didn’t give me an answer. For the life of me, I can’t seem to be able to understand what that meant!? </p>

<p>Also, really nervous right now, any advice on calming my nerves would help alot! I think it has to do with the fact that she’s really popular for her grade and I’m not nearly as such!</p>

<p>Once again, many thanks for the advice and replies!</p>

<p>No advice here (I’m the last person to ask about this kind of thing as I go to an all-girls religious school that has never ever ever had a prom and never will), but I just want to say that the Rice Krispie treat idea is adorable- it shows you’re actually thinking about her, and that’s really sweet :).
Good luck!</p>

<p>No advice here (I’m the last person to ask about this kind of thing as I go to an all-girls religious school that has never ever ever had a prom and never will), but I just want to say that the Rice Krispie treat idea is adorable- it shows you’re actually thinking about her, and that’s really sweet :).
Good luck!</p>