<p>We’ve always known my son would want either engineering or some kind of math or science.</p>
<p>His school went on trips when he was in 9th & 10th grade visiting different areas. It wasn’t until 11th grade that he started knowing more what he was looking for, and we had an idea of his gpa, speculated his sat’s from his psat scores. Last winter we began in earnest deciding size, location, gender mix, etc. He firmly knew nothing small, no tech school only, if he wanted to change majors he wanted to be able without transferring, wanted most kids living on campus for at least fresh/soph year. Then the kicker, he wanted it as close to 50/50 male-female ratio as possible and he absolutely did not want south, though I snuck in a NC school on him. </p>
<p>With that I searched collegeboard with his stats and started looking at that thing on the side… people who viewed this, also viewed that. </p>
<p>We visited local schools when we had time. We flew out to look at another on a day off of school. Then we planned the big road trip over spring break. He was liking every school he saw, so I thought he would like everything. Nope, spring break cut out a ton of schools, but really solidified what he wanted. So, we essentially had the list at spring of Junior year.</p>
<p>Then this year as he did interviews and thought more, we added a few he didn’t visit, but we all knew from what he did like, that he’d be okay at as well. </p>
<p>He got a letter from a school asking if he wanted to switch to ed2. He thought about it for a day, it was one of his 2 top schools, he spoke to some teachers who knew him well, and came back and said let’s go for it. He would be happiest there, but he has a bunch of back up applications in already. </p>
<p>Of course I want him to get in his ed school, but I recognize if he doesn’ get in he’ll be okay at the others as well.</p>