<p>"SMH.</p>
<p>Aren’t you the same kid who was oh-so-persistent about making up your ECs?</p>
<p>Have you considered reading about ethics and moral values? Or how to become more social so you can overcome your dislike (fear?) of social/group activities?"</p>
<p>SMH?</p>
<p>Yes, though I wouldn’t say I’m persistent, I inquired about the potential consequences of a potentially beneficial action, and when I learned that the risks outweighed the benefits I abandoned the idea. Ethics is not my favorite area of philosophy, but I still find it intriguing. No, I’ve never considered being more sociable, there simply aren’t enough of the type of people I’m looking for to socialize with, also I’m solitary by nature, even as a baby my face wouldn’t light up when seeing another baby, like other children did. Thankfully, I’m not plagued by social anxiety, I could probably benefit from better teamwork skills, mine are very poor, especially as a subordinate. Maybe I shouldn’t say I dislike socialization, because there are numerous people whose company I greatly enjoy, I’m just completely neutral to most people, kind of like I am to furniture.</p>
<p>"Why don’t you like group activities? Since you like to read and write, try joining a book club (so you can have people to discuss with) or, try writing for a local newspaper. Do something that you enjoy that shares your strengths/talents with other people. "</p>
<p>I work best on my own, that is the main reason. That is a good idea, I looked bookclubs up in my area and I think I’ll go to next months meeting, thank you for that.</p>
<p>"No, these would not count as EC’s because they don’t require leadership, collaboration with others, teamwork, etc. These are “hobbies”. "</p>
<p>Figured so.</p>
<p>"One thing a college is going to ask is how you are going to contribute to their community. Get out into the world and try to do some good. You will get something out of it as well. "</p>
<p>Thank you for your advice, I’ll take it into consideration.</p>
<p>“even if jshain is right though, i don’t think (if you have absolutely nothing else) you can’t put those on the activities list i guess… i mean if that’s what you do you might as well be truthful.”</p>
<p>I think I will.</p>