<p>Fabrizio, you seem to be working under the false assumption that your experience is the only valid one. You want to know how many white Americans refused to vote for Obama because his is black. I can’t give you a number, but I can tell you I know of several in my own neighborhood. Maybe it’s just my neighborhood.</p>
<p>You think if someone moved away from a lousy school, their experience doesn’t count. How about this, I chose to expose my children to all walks of life. When we lifed in a community that was 98% white, my preschool aged daughter attended a YWCA preschool in the nearby city, by our choice, because she would be exposed to a more diverse group of classmates, both by race and SES.</p>
<p>When we moved to Connecticut, we chose a diverse community. No, we didn’t move to the city, because we didn’t want to live in the city. However, our high school is about 60% white, 35 % Hispanic. We choose to send our youngest to a magnet school in New Haven which is predominantly Hispanic (note we are not Hispanic, but of mixed race), and where 95% of the students qualify for free or reduced price lunch. We believe in sending our children to the school which is the best fit for them. </p>
<p>When top schools like Harvard and Yale select their class each year, they have more than an adequate number of acceptable candidates of all races. They do not rank them and seleect the absolute top students because they are looking to form a balanced class. You argue that they shouldn’t consider race when balancing that class, but it’s OK for the to look at SES and gender - you won’t clarify why those classification are OK, but race is not. Race is relevant because they want to create an atmosphere where all their students feel welcome, and where there is a “critical mass” of different groups. </p>
<p>Perhaps because he “didn’t run away” you have never experienced an atmosphere like a school where everyone is different from you, where you feel isolated. perazziman’s son had the opportunity to attend a better school - should he have forgone that opportunity in the name of being true to his identity? I suppose all the black students who were admitted to Harvard and Yale should also forgo the opportunity? At my older daughter’s school I have witnessed people being surprised that black students do well - the AP classes are full of white kids, hardly any non-whites. The black students are generally not tracked into the honors and AP classes, because they are told they probably won’t do well in them. There is an assumption that they are inferior students, and unless someone convinces them otherwise, they believe it!</p>
<p>You have the experience of attending a school that was not predominantly white. We have children who have a different experience - living in a school that perhaps more closely reflects the demographics they will experience the rest of their lives. In what way is your experience more valid?</p>