<p>Okay, so the decisions from all the biggies have come out. I was rejected by Stanford, Cornell, MIT and Caltech but was accepted by Columbia (thank God!), so I am pretty much set, and I know I have no right whatsoever to groan about the outcome, but some certain things I have seen happened in my school really drove me nuts!</p>
<p>Someone from my school–half native american and half philippine–just got accepted into Stanford. I feel glad for her. </p>
<p>But at the same time, the school valedictorian, and with all 5’s on like a dozen APs and a whole lot of extracuriculars–Asian btw–was rejected from EVERY Ivy he applied to. A friend of mine, Korean, who does not have as good an EC but is clearly competitive enough, got recjected from almost EVERY college he applied to (he was accepted by UCI), and he’s literally crying himself a river right now. Similar thing happened to a Caucasian friend of mine (who has a stellar EC but wound up being accepted only by Colgate) and an Indian friend of mine (valedictorian too and 14 APs, accepted by USC likewise).</p>
<p>Now let’s get back to the Stanford girl. I’m not gonna say she does not deserve it (she’s a really terrific singer), but clearly from my point of view there’s plenty of other ppl in my school that deserve it more than she. Now don’t tell me I cannot judge her plainly from the surface. Her being the girlfriend of one of my best friends’, I know her and see her around campus a lot–in the student center watching TV with him, at the track watching sunset with him, in the library checking out the latest albums with him, while other ppl work their ass off every night. She obviously does not work half as hard as any of my friends aforementioned. Clearly she has her accomplishments, but I fail to see how these accomplishments can beat the accomplishments of a lot of other people’s.</p>
<p>You can say I’m a little jealous. In fact I am. I understand colleges are overflowing with Asians and Caucasians and Indians, etc. and want more diversity. I understand too many Asians work their ass off and have impeccable ECs but colleges can only accept a few. But sometimes it just seems so unfair for college admission officers to say “oh this guy must have worked really hard but too bad his EC is identical to a whole bunch of others”, and “this guy kind of sucks at academics but we need more native americans”, dismissing lots of sweat and tears of an applicant by a single flip of mind. The whole affirmative action and diversity thing frustrates me and, worse, makes me wish I belonged to another ethnicity and, worst of all, starts me to question what America is all about (I’m kind of like the dad in American History X here but certainly much less aggressive, lol…)</p>
<p>Lost track here… anyway, I feel much better now and I hope I got my point across.</p>