<p>I have watched this thread for months and am ready to respond to some of the comments. I am one of the parents interviewed for the story. I wanted to let you know I appreciate your concern, but D and I are just fine. She is graduating in December, a semester early. The past 2 years, when I have NOT taken out PLUS loans, she has worked to support herself - rent, food, etc. She has now been working in her field while attending school, and thus has some great resume-building experience. She has made professional contacts that she could not have made had she gone to the local U where we would not have incurred any debt. Last semester, she had a 3.8 while working 2 part-time jobs, taking 18 hours, and rehearsing/performing. Clearly, she is motivated to succeed.</p>
<p>We did not go into debt without great thought and calculation. We know absolutely that I can pay back what i borrowed through PLUS, and even now she could pay back her Staffords with just a few more work hours. </p>
<p>The article did not misquote me or misrepresent our situation, but I do believe people on CC did not understand that we did not just enter this situation without great thought as to the potential outcomes. We are not naive. It’s a lot of money, and I am fully prepared to start paying back the $41,000 I borrowed through PLUS once I am not paying toward tuition etc. </p>
<p>PLUS loans are not inherently bad. I do not recommend them when there is a viable alternative, i.e. a State U that has just as good a program in your child’s field at a lower cost. I would not recommend them for a child with no ambition, poor work ethic, or an “undeclared” major. My child did not fit those criteria. She knew from an early age what she wanted to do and took every step necessary to be prepared for college and career. It’s not her fault I went through a costly divorce and paid for her brother’s rehab/attorney fees. She earned the opportunity to pursue her dream, and is already many steps ahead of her peers who stayed closer to home. She is working. She WILL work. And we will both pay back our loans.</p>
<p>Some people here were pretty harsh, and I understand why. Just please don’t judge every situation involving PLUS as a bad one with a greedy child/stupid parent/needless expense. Sometimes, it can change a child’s life. I took a risk, it’s paying off, and I am grateful I had the opportunity.</p>
<p>My recommendation as someone who has been there is to really look at your child and weigh the options. Do the math, do the research, and then live with your decision. </p>
<p>Thanks for reading.</p>