Bottom Line: My daughter is most interested in attending Villanova and Northeastern, but did not quite get enough merit aid to make it affordable for us. Got $5K/yr from Nova and $10K/yr from Northeastern. EFC is $53K, but can’t actually afford that. But don’t qualify for any need-based besides UNSUB Stafford, etc. No grants. Have one kid at Loyola MD on athletic/academic scholarship of $33K/yr, so that’s affordable. Have another one entering college in 2 years though.
Question is, what is best way to try to get add’l merit aid from Nova and Northeastern? I know the max she can get with the Villanova Scholarship is $15k/yr, but that would make a big diff to us. Max for Northeastern seems to be much higher than that based on posts I’ve seen on CC. She is accepted into the following (merit aid offers noted where known): BC (Honors College), Wash U, Case Western ($20.5K/yr), UVA (in-state), William & Mary (in-state), Lafayette (aid still TBD), Fordham ($15k/yr), Richmond (aid TBD), Clark U ($20K+/yr), Dickinson ($20K/yr).
Wash U, BC, Case Western are ALL higher ranked schools academically in just about every ranking, as are UVA and W&M (we live in VA, so in-state costs for us). Not getting money from BC of course, but IS accepted in to Honors College there. If Northeastern would bump up offer to $20k/yr, she would accept and go there. If Villanova would go to $15K/yr, it’s still tough financially, but would probably make it work somehow. So, should we just call up the FA ofc at Northeastern and say, “Here’s where my daughter has been accepted – BC Honors College, Wash U, getting $20K/yr from Case Western, etc., (so she’s on the higher end of the student academic profile at NU to say the least) – but she really like Northeastern and would go there over those others if it was just a little more affordable for us,” and ask if they can find more aid for her, to at least match the $20K/yr from Case Western?
Would they even care that she’s been accepted into Honors College at BC – a rival to Northeastern that I know is considered more prestigious – even though she’s not getting any money there? My argument there would be, “well, it’s worth it for us to pay the extra $40K over 4 years to go to Honors College to BC than to go to Northeastern.” But if it’s $20K/yr less, that’s a different story.
The wrinkle in this whole college decision dilemma is that my daughter plans to play soccer in college, so that’s why UVA and W&M wouldn’t be the easy choices here. Neither of those schools are interested in her for soccer. Nova and Northeastern are, but they do not have any athletic money to offer this year (Nova has a new coach and old coach has committed all the money). All the D3 schools listed would like for her to play there, but of course, none of them can offer athletic aid. And Wash U doesn’t really offer much merit at all, so they’re probably out.
Sorry for the rigamarole, but ultimately, just trying to get help with suggestions for how best to go about getting more merit aid from Nova and Northeastern. Is calling first ok? Better to do it in person? Should I just be straightforward and lay out the situation? Thanks in advance for any recs.