<p>This is a quote from <a href="http://talk.collegeconfidential.com/college-admissions/386669-asking-recommendations.html%5B/url%5D">http://talk.collegeconfidential.com/college-admissions/386669-asking-recommendations.html</a>.
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Try to find ways to encourage them to tell stories about you and the things you've done in or out of the classroom. A teacher telling us a story about you is much more likely to have authenticity and more likely to share something that is actually reflective of your skills, strengths, and characteristics.
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<p>My question is: How can a student politely tell the teacher that he does not want the recommendation to be about his extracurricular activities? It's obviously awkward trying to suggest how a teacher should write a recommendation letter.</p>
<p>Getting a recommendation letter from another teacher isn't really an option - both teachers I have asked so far also asked for a resume to help them write the letters. I assume any other teachers will ask for the same thing.</p>