I agree about withholding judgment and keeping an open mind, but she is posting on her social media accounts regularly. I’m sure there is a reason for her silence which will be revealed soon enough.
I feel like it is more common then people think to not be close with their roommates the first year. My roommate was nice and we would hang out sometimes but once we moved into off campus apartments with our own friends we stopped talking.
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I found it is better not to be a closed friend to the roommate.
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This is where I think things get weird. Like your knowing she’s active on her social media accounts.
So now that school has started, how is it going?
Not everyone is interested in sharing their private lives with Mark Zuckerberg and his minions. Perhaps you could consider trying to communicate over a private messaging app?
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Things are going great. My daughter never asked why the roommate never engaged with her prior to move in but they are getting along just fine and often do stuff together during their free time.
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Nothing. I myself am not interested in social media. I have an Instagram account but I rarely post pictures and I’m not into checking other people’s profiles. Don’t take it personal. He is probably not a social media person. He is not intrigued by it not because of you but because of his personal likes and choices. Let it slide. Don’t let this bother you.
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Thanks for the update and glad it’s all going well!!
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Don’t let this bother you. My roommates and I not friends in any form/kind of social media but we get along well personally. Not all my siblings and relatives are my social media friends either 
Please read the entire post. The OP updated that things worked out just fine.
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