Safety and Targets for 3.7 weighted quirky bright not good test taker NJ white boy?

Contrasting recent experience from the children of two friends, both of whom were Class of 2016 at Goucher. One, a girl, ethnic Chinese adopted into a crunchy-granola Jewish family, was enthusiastic about it but over the course of her freshman year became increasingly unhappy about the 2-1 female-male ratio and the very low representation of Asian kids. She transferred out after one year, to the University of Hawaii no less. The other was a boy, and a recruited athlete. He loved everything about the school, even after an injury ended his athletic career in his second year. He had always struggled a bit in school and had no academic focus, but he matured significantly at Goucher and developed interests, discipline, and drive about things other than sports. He had a great study-abroad experience in Italy. He didn’t mind the gender ratio, but never took much advantage of it – he was “claimed” by a girlfriend a few weeks into his first year, and they are still very much together. He graduated on time, and got a good job on his own hustle within a few months of graduation. He pretty much had a dream experience at Goucher, which made his parents (who separated when he was a toddler, and who often did not see eye-to-eye about his education) very happy.