<p>First of all, hopefully none of us <em>will</em> "hold it against you." Goodness, why should anyone do so? :)</p>
<p>From teaching the gifted, I know that they need especially to be motivated, often. Paradoxically, sometimes they do not perform when placed in too easy an environment. I don't know about the 2.7; perhaps the setting did figure in to performance, depending on the level of achievement of peers, the expectations of profs given what they've come to receive from the student body there. </p>
<p>But as to needs, I would hope the student(s) would be forthcoming about this. Parents, GC's, and private counselors should all count on the student to articulate desires, needs. Sometimes adults can help steer that, or consider & advise with regard to aspects minimized by the student. (Such as possibly being more aware of how the student is affected by distraction, by peer performance, based on their history.) Hopefully, this all involves dialogue as a family. I always think it's important for parents to provide reality checks to the nevertheless valid dreams. The student may be projecting a preference not based on personality traits (for example, a student overwhelmed by large environments, large classes, or uncomfortable in the reverse), but based on a popular choice of current peers. (The colleges that are currently "hot." Etc.) Merely offering an adult opinion does not prevent them from going their own way. This is why I believe in having these conversations really early on, before fall of senior year. By that last year of high school, the seniors often get swept up in pressures & competition generated from classmates, & are not responding to any genuine inner voices. </p>
<p>In general, academic and personal needs, in their various categories, should all be considered, within the budget limits realizable or projected by the family, including any post-graduate acdemic needs. If you know a student will be truly unhappy in a rural location, or without nearby conveniences (including airports, if that's a concern), that's something to be upfront about.</p>
<p>In the case of one of my D's, I think location is absolutely crucial to her doing well in college -- not a specific location, but only a certain type of location. While she's trying to focus on both an ideal location & an ideal academic setting, I'm more realistic, & it's a struggle. Since she's stated that location is paramount (& since that's true from her history), I would prefer her to sacrifice "ideal" academics for the location, if it comes down to such a choice, because it is likely to make a huge difference in performance, not to mention possible post-graduate decisions. Nevertheless, I may lose the battle. I can only encourage, that's all.</p>