I was flamed here a few months ago by the “adults in the room”, and I suspect I will be after this post. But it’s my reality, my opinion, and quite frankly something I need to say out of frustration.
I’m heading to Vanderbilt next week for freshman move in. I’m excited to do so, and happy that Vanderbilt has decided it is safe to move us in. Yes, there are tons of restrictions- many of them “theater”- but almost all of us are ok with them. I live in NY, we’ve been wearing masks for months everywhere we go, and life is fine. We do that to protect others and ourselves, and outside of a few outbreaks here and there the NE has done extremely well (that’s sort of the point here, though…).
My great grandfather is still alive. He was a child during the depression, a teenager in WW2. Lest you think this is political at all, he’s never voted GOP in his life, was in a union for over 40 years, etc. He believes we are acting crazy, that we’re shutting down the world in total when we should simply be changing our behavior… and I wholeheartedly agree with him.
Masks work. Distancing works. This is an insidious disease, but the way I see it we basically have two choices. Stop life as we know it and twiddle our thumbs for a vaccine, or take precautions that have proven to be effective and live relatively normal lives while doing so. The latter has risks…but those are 100% risks that we should be taking. I can already see the eye rolling by some of the people here, saying “You’re a teenager. Of course you only care about yourself. What about those who are at risk?” You know what? I do care about them. But they TOO have a responsibility to act in their own best interests. I was talking to my grandfather and great grandfather the other day. They haven’t left their homes for months. My grandfather is ok with that- it’s his choice to do so. He made a point that what the country is doing right now is akin to not allowing the rest of us to eat peanuts because he is allergic. Should we eat peanuts in front of him? No. But to change behavior for a select few (and EVERY single study shows that the VAST majority of deaths are occurring within the compromised community) is silly. Yes, I understand that some people are getting sick and dying who are not in that category. To that, I say…a little bit of propaganda. Of course it is occurring. People get sick in normal times and die when they shouldn’t. I have an aunt who is an infectious disease doc in NJ and my uncle is an oncologist in FL. Both have said that the “normal” people dying- the younger, non-compromised- are at a rate not dissimilar to normal times with sickness. The difference is the overwhelming numbers due to the contagiousness of this disease make those numbers higher. But that’s as much or more of an issue with the idiots not wearing masks or distancing…
I just re-read the above, and it sounds tremendously insensitive. Is it, though? The vast majority of us have had our lives ruined. Students, parents, everyone. The world has ground to a halt. We now have measures to combat that. Wearing masks, distancing, and being relatively smart about things slow the spread and protect people. Therapeutics have significantly improved, making death a possibility only in more extreme cases. Before you say it, no, I’m not “ok” with people dying so I can have my life back. Trading deaths for happiness is not something that can be excused. But what if it isn’t exactly that? What if we’re to the point where we DO HAVE the ability to mitigate this risk, where those who are most at risk simply continue to act responsibly and take the precautions needed, and there’s a compromise? It seems there are two lines of thought- OPEN UP!!! and STAY SHUT DOWN!!! NO SCHOOL!!!. The world is grey. Acknowledge that.