<p>*Another child received a pell LOAN. *</p>
<p>I don’t think there is such a thing as a “Pell Loan”. </p>
<p>What is the EFC for each of your children who are undergrads? Each undergrad should have his own EFC.</p>
<p>Of course, I am still suppose to maintain a home for them.</p>
<p>Yes, it is a bit crazy that child support is reduced/goes away when kids are out of high school when the “custodial parent” still has to have a home large enough for them to come home to when they’re not in school.</p>
<p>Can you move to a cheaper place and have the kids go to their dad’s when they’re not in school? </p>
<p>Since you’re not working, are you getting spousal support?</p>
<p>*Child right now with loans and their earnings will be contributing $20K. *</p>
<p>Ok…it sounds like this child earns so much money that his EFC is too high for Pell.</p>
<p>You’re right your comment regarding child support after age 18 doesn’t help and your previous comments didn’t either. I am just looking out for my kids.</p>
<p>Ok…we know that you’re frustrated and you’re in a precarious situation with health and an uncooperative exhusband. However, some of your posts have been rather rude. Thumper and others are really trying to help you. The people here (like thumper, swimcat, etc) have lots of experience and they could just decide to ignore your concerns. They can help you, so be pleasant.</p>