<p>My oldest son is a soph. at MIT and loves it there. It can kick his butt at times but he's doing great and loves, loves, loves the people, particularly in his dorm as he's involved in dorm govt.</p>
<p>My middle son, a high school junior, visited my son and really enjoyed his time there saying that the people he met were great because they were so friendly, collaborative and not just about being cool. He likes nerdy, friendly, down to earth, yet fun, witty and intelligent people. We were there for three days and he had a blast just meeting my older son's friends.</p>
<p>While he has a good SAT of over 2200, good gpa, community college classes including engineering, architecture, math, etc, is on a robotics team that's surprising everyone and winning a lot, and he's been a serious cellist for years with some great stuff including professional work and community service, he also has a math disability (he works <em>really</em> hard at math and will only get as far as Calculus I by end of senior year) as well as some health issues such as Type 1 diabetes.</p>
<p>I doubt he could get into MIT anyways, but even if he managed to do so, I don't think I would ever want him to go across the country like his brother did, especially because MIT is so intense. </p>
<p>What other schools might offer a similar energy, similarly great group of students, yet not be quite so intense and even offer support for students with disabilities? I am thinking Harvey Mudd for one but would love to hear of other schools.</p>
<p>Not sure at all what his major might be-possibly engineering, architecture, or even something like game design or industrial design as he's super creative.</p>